My boyfriend and I have tried to have sex several times, but he is unable to penetrate my vagina. It's as if it I am pretty sure I am aroused, and I have plenty of natural lubrication, and the condoms we use are lubricated, but his penis has never been able to go in further than the tip of the head. He has been able to get three of his fingers in without any trouble or pain on my part, but it just doesn't work with his penis! It's really annoying and I have always felt so ready to have sex, but it just doesn't work!
2006-12-07 16:06:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
You probably have a tough hymen. Go to a doctor and see what they can do for you.
2006-12-07 16:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by , 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Penetrated Vaginas
2016-12-14 19:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by donegan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can penetrate with three fingers, you're right, there's no reason why he can't with his penis. Perhaps he holds back for fear of hurting you? And there is always some nervous tension in the muscles of the vagina.
You might try being in the top position, straddling his hips and you be the one guiding his penis within you. This can be very sexy for both of you.
2006-12-07 16:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by Trader S 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Based on your description, it sounds like you might have vaginismus, a sexual dysfunction that is fairly common among women (12-17% of women seeking treatment for a gynecological problem are diagnosed with it). Vaginismus causes the involuntary contraction of the outer third of the vagina which makes penetration painful and difficult if not impossible. It has nothing to do with penis size, level of arousal, hymen, or age. Talk to your gynecologist to rule out any other (more serious) possibilities, but know that with a proper understanding of vaginismus, the condition is totally treatable; most women who have experienced and sought treatment for it go on to experience normal, healthy sexual relationships. There are kits available to treat it at vaginismus.com, but I wouldn't spend the money on it until you have spoken with your gyno.
For more information, go to:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaginismus
Hope this helps and good luck!
2006-12-07 19:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by Lauren F 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
relax..use extra lube and don't miss the foreplay. If you try to force it too much it will hurt so be patient. If you're old enough maybe see a doctor who can sort this out. good luck xoxox
2006-12-07 16:14:53 · answer #5 · answered by ***Miracles Happen*** 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him but try not to point out the problem so fast .talk to him as a friend .may be you'll know more about him .you know sex is a kind of communication .if you don't know him .How could you have perfect sex!
2006-12-07 16:17:12 · answer #6 · answered by ®ÔµM ¸showboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try another poison and maybe then you can have sex with him trust me don't go to a doctor you are just going to wast your money cuz he is just going to say sorry but there is nothing i ca do for you so don't go to a doctor just tell him to do it really hard if not then how old are you cuz maybe you are to young and it you are then tell him to wait a wail and it may get bigger take it from me.
2006-12-07 17:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to try another position, like doggystyle, and extra lube couldn't hurt either.
2006-12-07 16:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by bluenbri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have an odd hymen Is it still intact or very flexible?
Or could you have vaginismis?
See your ob-gyn for help
2006-12-07 16:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't it go in? Are u too tight? or is he not hard? Or is it so small hes in and you cant tell? That doesn't make sense that it just wont go it!
2006-12-07 16:08:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋