Second pregnancy that probably wont make it :-(?

Question

I am in so much pain and I know I should go to the doctor but I can't bare to hear anymore bad news. I went to the doctor and said I was having seizures and they put me on a six month waiting list to find out why. Now, here I am crying because I can barely move and I'm scared. I'm scared that the hospital wont do anything to help me. I'm scared that they will judge me because I am 19 and this is my 3rd pregnancy and I only have one baby. I just don't know what to do. I'm terrified beyond belief and the hospital closest doesn't have the best care for pregnant people. What if they say your not pregnant or what if they say its something serious. I just don't know how much more I can take. There's no real question here so I may be reported I just need advice and support for this question. I will be going to the hopsital soon if someone answers my calls. :-(

Answer 1

you know you're going to have to go to the hospital, tell them you're not leaving until you find out what is wrong. they have no right to judge you...if the say something judgemental, take down their name and report them. listen hun, you have to do what is best for you and your child, go soon, maybe the sooner you go the better! good luck!

Answer 2

Carmel I will pray for what is best for you and your baby. Just take it a step at a time and know that everything happens for a reason.

Call around to see if there are any other hospitals or post the town you live in and I will look for you.

My BF is a paramedic and says to go the ER (call 911 or have someone drive you) now rather then wait for 6 months. And tell them you are pregnant with seizures.

Best wishes.

Answer 3

Ok - firstly you need to try calm down a little. If you are pregnant then you being this distressed isn't any good for baby!

I understand you don't want to go to the hospital because you don't want to hear bad news... i can be like that myself BUT you're imagination is running wild at the moment. All these "what ifs" - i mean in your frame of mind you conjure up the worst things possile right? So isn't it better to go to the hospital and find out what it REALLY is so that atleast you know how to deal with it?

If they judge you for being 19 - f*ck them. You are there for medical advice ONLY - whatever opinions they may or may not have are NOT IMPORTANT. Don't let strangers opinions upset you - they don't know you or anything about you so whatever they think is inconsequential.

Do go to the hospital - you have a fear of the unknown at the moment.. atleast if you know steps can be taken to help.

If you need to talk at all email me... but please head to the hospital.

Best of luck.

Answer 4

Sometimes the best way to try and deal with a situation is when you know what you're up against.
Also, if there is something wrong, then time is of the essence as the longer it is left untreated the more time and medication it will take to heal your body.
Go the hospital or speak to your doctor and explain how you are feeling/what your symptoms are.
Hopefully, this way you will be able to have some resolution with what is happening and you will be able to commence on the correct treatment sooner rather than later.

Answer 5

i know your worried and upset, if you think that the closest hospital isn't good enough for you, then have a friend or someone you trust take you to another hospital. If there is something wrong with you then they will not make you wait 6 months. they will do bloodwork, examine you, and they can also tell you about the pregnancy. you should call someone to take you to the hospital if you feel like you need to go tonight. if not, then first thing in the morning go to the doctor.

Answer 6

Hi hon. I am older, but also have been critiszied for being a single mom. both kids don't know their dad's. People's opinions don't matter. What matters is that you are happy with your kids. and so you are preg and 19... go to the hospital. It may save your baby's life and maybe yours too? DOn't take the chance. Go, get help, and if people can't be open minded, just remember, life is a journey and everyone gets crtisized for something... being preg 3 times at a young age doesn't make you bad. Now go to the hospital

Answer 7

If you are in need of medical help and have no way there call 911. Doctors and all of us can't judge you just because you have been pregnant 3 times. Remember Only god can judge.
If you are having a miscarriage you need to go to the er. Ask for 2nd and even 3rd opinions. Even ask to be transfered to another hospital.

You really need to see a specialist. Good luck and i will pray for you and your health

Answer 8

ring 999 if your in that much pain honey, dont be frightend and you say you have 1 child well u need to get better or find out wot is wrong , so you can see to the little one, you may move quickley along the list if you make a fuss , get yaself sorted, try and not be frightend , things are always worse than u think, get the ball rolling and be brave for u and for ya little one . good luck x

Answer 9

first of all i hope that you are in a monogomous relationship to be 19 and have been pregnant 3 times. i'm not judging just worried about your well being. you should go on birth control because obviously your health is not the best at this time. i'm not sure why you should have to be on a waiting list to find out why you are having seizures. that doesn't seem very patient conscious to me. i would try going to see another doctor. and you really need to get to a hospital as soon as possible if you are in that much pain and having problems. you have to think about your health. and if they judge you it's because they are jerks ignore them. only God can judge you. but i am worried about your health and well being so you need to see a doctor asap and see about going on birth control and if you aren't in a monogomous relationship you really need to take better care to protect yourself otherwise. best of luck and hope you feel better

Answer 10

Baby go to the hospital right now.....any pain that bad isn't good. It could be an appendicits and if it ruptures you are in serious trouble.......go to the hospital now.........can't you call an ambulance where you are........call the police they will get you there........