my friend recently fall in love with a guy who is older than her. he is 21 year older than my friend. I told my friend that he is possible to be her father but she just wouldnt listen to me, which piss me off.
that make me wonder....why would she like him? LOL I mean, they are 21 years apart. I want to know you guys' opinion.
If you are a male, will you marry a girl who is 21 years younger than you?
If you are a female, will you marry a guy who is 21 years older than you?
Why would you?? and Why wouldnt you?
2006-12-07 15:41:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hey, you said your husband is 19 yr older than you. In your marriage, do you find any difficulties communicating with your husband?
2006-12-07 15:48:08 · update #1
OMG~ I didnt feel piss off becuz my frd like him. I piss off becuz my friend yelled at me after I told her that he could be her father.
So dont blame me for being a bad friend. I am just curious.....
2006-12-07 15:52:04 · update #2
Society makes people feel guilty about being with someone much older or much younger than they are. Age should make no difference, love is what is important.
I have a good friend who married another good friend of mine. He was 35 and she was 52 when they married...they are very happy together.
My great grandfather married his second wife when he was in his 50's and she was mid 20's.
I am almost 70 but would marry a 20 yr old if we loved each other. If we didn't love one another then no way would we marry.
Remember it isn't age that counts it is love...plain and simple love. And someone mentioned communication, you can communicate with anyone you love.
2006-12-07 15:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is possible yea... but it will not last... if the guy is 21 years older the guy has more than not had his kids and don't want any more and the girl will probably want kids... the same thing with the guy 21 years younger than the woman...She probably had kids and don't want any more and evenually the guy is going to want to have kids..
As long as she isn't seeing a married man and he is not cheating on his wife and they are both 18 years or older then there is nothing wrong with it..
2006-12-07 23:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by Autumns Destany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first mind your own business with your friend you wouldn't want her judging your dumb decisions would you...
second a man 21 yrs her senior compared to the guys around her age will make the younger guys seem like they're retarded (sorry to all th mentally disabled) The older man has experience, probably a job so he has money. They say you marry your father...
I would definitley go out with an older women (21 my senior)
you don't have to put up with the mindless BS you read about here in Yahoo answers all day long
2006-12-07 23:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my husband is 20 years older then me and we've been married for almost 11 years now and have a 4 1/2 yr old daughter..when we met we had the and still have the same interest,like the same type of music,the same sports..why wouldnt she like him just because he is older ??? just because someone is older does not mean they are old
2006-12-08 00:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by charmel5496 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married to a man 24 yrs older than I am and we have been married for 23 yrs-Yes I would marry a guy older than I am- remember age is only a number-if he is good to her -you stay out- why would you give out advice-let your friend make up her own mine-you know that some time it is better to be pissed off than pissed on-stay out of your friend business
2006-12-07 23:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by brown sugar 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't. Of course it is normal for a man to be 3-4 years older than his wife but that much age difference may create problems. Generations are different, likes and dislikes are different, reactions are different... etc.. They may think they are the good matches for themselves for several specific situations but if they think more generally, they will end up with the decision that their marriage may be worrying for themselves.
2006-12-07 23:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by 17 - Pierre van Hooijdonk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my husband is 19 years older than me, I see nothing wrong with this girl liking this older man. It's her business.. You just sound like a nosy friend, mind your own business. If she's 18, she's legally old enough to do what she wants, let her marry who she wants.
2006-12-07 23:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by pinkforyouonly21 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love has no age limits...get a life! Lots of people have May December romances successfully!
2006-12-08 00:40:28 · answer #8 · answered by Dre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if man is 21 , than she hasn't been born yet
if man is 42 and so she must be 21, no problem
if you are 21, than he must be 42
if you are 42, than he will look for somone much younger
obviously
wonder no more
2006-12-07 23:46:47 · answer #9 · answered by Martin T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋