Youd think I would know how a girl's mind works, being as I'm one myself, but I'm so confused right now. I emailed this girl from school right, and I thought we hit it off quite well bc it only took her a day to reply. She was polite, answered my questions, and even complimented me. After that, I wrote back the next day...still casual, but I asked a few more questions to get to know her better. They werent personal or anything but I definitely tried to sound like I was interested in her.
Here's the thing: she hasn't replied in almost a week. Did I miss something here? I thought she was interested too by the way she replied. Was she maybe turned off by how fast I replied back, or is she just playing games with me, trying to get me to chase? Bc I would, I think she may be worth it. I thought she wouldve replied by now. So what's going on in her mind? I never thought it would be so hard to figure out what a girl is thinking. Should I email her again? Thanks in advance!
2006-12-07 15:37:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Give her time. You should naturally be able to tell if she is interested or not. Although, in this complicated world, sometimes "acting" like she dosen't like you means she really does. Some people like to play games, this could be one of many I'm sure you will encounter. GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-07 15:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by Secrets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this same problem.i don't like it when I give someone my full respect and attention, and they do not do the same.If she's not feeling you, she should let you know. Look at it like this, if someone you were interested in emailed you, wouldn't you email them back promptly, just as you did with this girl. Maybe there is some problem, maybe she does like you and is afraid to show, or maybe there is some other problem. But if she hasn't gotten back to you yet, maybe she's not interested. In which case, you seem like a great person, you'll find someone else.
2006-12-08 00:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by indrep33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never take any person, place or thing's response to you personally. If she has not reply to you in the way you thought she would; it is O.K.. Everybody has some idea of what role people should play in our lives. Be open and honest to how you have casted a role for her in your life and be free and open to know she has cast a role for you. The question is what role has she casted for you?
2006-12-07 23:50:52 · answer #3 · answered by Twinkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in the same situation. instead of emailing her again, just wait for it or not. if she's truly interested, then she would say something. i know what's going on your mind...maybe she's just busy, and don't have time to answer...maybe she doesn't think that i like her...maybe if i showed her one more time that i like her that she will respond...here's my suggestion...try one more time, but this time, stay off the original topic of conversation...see where that leads you...if she still doesn't respond, then she's probabaly not into you...good luck...
2006-12-07 23:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've done that, and to tell you, she didn't reply back. it's okay, cause i waited a while to email her again, and she did reply. maybe she just thinks the email has nothing to do with anything important, or just... well.. playing hard to get?
2006-12-07 23:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by kero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe her internet crashed. Email her again and see what happens - email and ask if she received your last email. You never know - it could be a situation out of her control.
2006-12-08 00:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by cuteblondecrystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is incredibly possible that she cant get to a computer. or she forgot. or she got into a car crash. anythings possible. however it seems that she would be either playing hard to get or isn't interested. if its the second sorry!
2006-12-08 00:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its all mind games, she wants you to worry and make it seem like you stressin her. she on games play yo cards and ask her whats up with the two of ya are ya gonna kick it or what
2006-12-08 13:04:32 · answer #8 · answered by BOOTZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋