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2006-12-07 15:21:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you think he's cheating on you...............then he's cheating.
2006-12-07 15:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by msjuliet2005 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How can you tell...well men are creatures of habit...has he accused you of cheating on him yet????
Usually that is a dead give away....I always say that the one doing the accusing is the one guilty...food for thought...does he not have time for you? Is he too tired for sex? Is he working long hours but the paycheck is not showing the extra money? Is he taking really good CARE of how he looks and smells? Does he go away for "classes" or "meetings"? Does he dissappear for a day or two and doesn't say what or where he was or did? If the signs are there well then....cut your losses and run....
2006-12-07 15:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by Karen F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't want sex from you
Never trys to get you in the sac
Romance is no longer there with him
he smells of different perfumes then your own
he has lipstick on his clothes
may have phone numbers in his pockets
stays out late at work
goes out during the week says going out with friends but he is meeting a gal instead.
Always calls at the last minute and says he has to work late.
Spending money on stuff that you never see?
Strange charges on the credit cards.
Check his cell-phone bill for strange numbers
Confront him and see how he reacts.
These are just a few hire a PI if you want the whole can of worms.
2006-12-07 18:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Msjuliet2005, I have to disagree with you.
My wife has been through her share of relationships where she has been hurt and betrayed. Now I am an eccentric person in my behavior, however, I am consistent in being faithful. I've hugged someone I haven't seen and some of her foundation got on my shoulder, I've gotten strange calls, almost all of the clues that could lead to an investigation. I've even lied about stupid things.
However, I've never cheated, and I am one of the most ridiculously romantic guys, ever. Why am I eccentric? I don't know. It's who I am. However, I am faithful, because I told her, and God, that I would remain devoted for eternity, for better, for worse.
2006-12-08 03:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been with him for any length of time, no one has to tell you how to tell. You would know his habits & ways better than he would, so if you feel like there are things that have changed which don't seem right in the relationship, then he's cheating. Only get your proof before aproaching him with it because you know he's going to lie, and try to put the fear in you for checking up on him and his actions.
2006-12-07 16:19:13 · answer #5 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be an investigator. That is how I found out my husband was cheating on me. Look for clues men do not hide things well. Woman are smarter by nature. If he is cheating you will find out it is just a matter of time Good luck with your search.
2006-12-07 15:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by loqueen 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is he being more attentive to his appearance? Does he shower before going to the gym? Does he have times that he has no explanation to where he is? Most men cheat so be prepared for that to be the case. If you have suspicions and feel it in your gut instinct then it probably is happening.
2006-12-07 15:35:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lies about everything; unavailable on the weekends; purchases new clothes; new hair cuts; start fights so he can "stray; smells like Channel No. 5, 19 ,22 (or any kind of fragrance); stays out late night; always working "overtime;" always making excuses for not being attentive to you & your needs, the clincher - NO SEX or intimacy in the relationship (if he's not getting "it" from you, than...), - feel me?
2006-12-07 15:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by motherkc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when they start lying about any and everything, when you ask them a question and they hestitate(its because they are trying to think of an answer),if they stay out all night,if he leave in the middle of the night when you are sleeping, if he doesnt answer his cell phone...normally if you have a gut feeling there has to be a reason...keep your eyes open and your antennas raised, your answers will be revealed to you
2006-12-07 16:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by huneygrl1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finding a man's secret or finding out if he is cheatin to a girl is like having an investigation. (haha) of course you need to find some clues and partially you need to follow your instincts too.
2006-12-07 15:23:55 · answer #10 · answered by chinita 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's often out for some reason or other.
2006-12-07 21:28:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋