2006-12-07 14:49:02 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES! love is a choice, it grows and grows, but two people have to be willing to make it grow and never fade.
2006-12-07 14:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in all honesty no i wouldn't just because he wasn't what i thought he was when we got married. i realize that love is a choice and well you never really know someone till you've been married for a while. then you get to know their famliy and live with their family and then you have more problems because they want to run you life and well he believes them before he believes you and so you are always fighting and so no i would not do it again if i could go back the only thing i like about my marriage right now is my kids so if i could keep them and not be married well that is the way i would go.
2006-12-07 14:56:56 · answer #2 · answered by emotionalyhurtmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not married now, but when I was, for 14 years, I was miserable. So, to answer your question,,,,,,To the same guy... absolutely not. To someone else, yes. I believe in marriage, but you need a partner who believes what you believe and wants out of life, marriage, family, what you want. I firmly believe that you must be best friends, that's what's going to keep you together, forever through all the rough times. Communication...it's the key! Really!
2006-12-07 14:54:13 · answer #3 · answered by TRE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thanx for this question and for me, its tough to answer cuz it feels like I'm deceiving my wife. If she had to answer this question, I know for a fact that it'd be a big YES and that my problem, She counts on me to make everything alright which I do but at the same time she dont make an effort to make me feel the way I make her feel about me. to answer the question I'd say YES and I'll have a long delay before the wedding so she would solve all of her problems. Thanx for the question again.
2006-12-07 15:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by monreve_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why, you would not? Would I marry the same person, another person or If I am married would I never do it again?
Probably yes, but I would be make less mistakes and smarter decisions in my marriage.
2006-12-07 14:52:13 · answer #5 · answered by nowhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married when I was 21. Far too young.
My ex husband is now my best friend.
I wouldn't change a thing about that. But, going forward, I know I would need to know more about myself and the other before I devoted my entire life to him.
2006-12-07 14:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by majicatus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, marriage has lots of detractors, mostly those with failed marriages.
My first marriage did not work and the 2nd has had many many problems.
Now its fantastic.
Marriage is not for everyone, as you have to work at it.
All recent studies I have read say that married people live longer, are happier and have more sex.
So I want to live a long time, be happy and have lots of sex
2006-12-07 15:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by Cameron in OZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but if I could, there are some things that I would do differently than I have. Because I don't regret marrying my wife and never could. I love her too much to regret that decision.
2006-12-07 14:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband died.. And it was many years ago. Yes, if I could find a wonderful man like him I would do it all over again. Being married is a blessing. It is a commitment and it is what you make of it. God bless****
2006-12-07 14:51:39 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, without a doubt in my mind. We have had some really hard times but after all the crap is done and over, It only brings you closer. You just have to be willing to work at it.
2006-12-07 14:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by Danelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! I think I would be only half of a person with out him. I would feel like half of my soul was missing. He gets on my last nerve almost daily, but I am certain at times I get on his though it is not as often, it makes up in quality lol. And then the make up sex....................... Is always fun.......... WOW!
Yes I would do it all over again......
2006-12-07 14:52:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋