2006-12-07 14:48:57 · 20 answers · asked by tan b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Perhaps the two of you should seek some marriage counseling. You really did not give enough details to comment on. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-07 14:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More detail would be better if we knew why. Guys like sex so maybe you ain't letting him ride the caboose enough. Another thing the first year of marriage is the hardest stay with it talk to him about counselling if that may help. He may have just come to the reality that he is going to be with you his to be your husband for his whole life and cant handle the one woman thing.
Really instead of asking this question you should be finding out why?
2006-12-08 03:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first year is the hardest. If you can get through that you can still fail. Is your husbands request reasonable, is the deal failing? If you think it can be resolved ...try. If its a dead horse, cut your losses and put it down to experience. Many people think marriage is just a big wedding, its hard, too hard for some.
2006-12-07 22:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by auntynoall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't broken a record, Britney Spears has. Her first one lasted about 56hrs? Something like that.
Well if he wants divorce, ever asked why? If there's a reason, try fixing that problem. If all else fails, then life moves on. Maybe someone else is out there for you and he's still to come.
2006-12-07 22:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is forever, however most people go into them the same way they would enter a typical relationship. Unless there is cheating involved, its your responsibility to keep your promise and work through the tuff times.
Adam
2006-12-07 22:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to ask him if he wants to go to marriage councelling to save your marriage if he says no then there is nothing you can really do but get a divorce.
2006-12-08 00:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I separated from my 2nd husband after 17 months...sometimes you just realize you made a mistake, and don't want to waste anymore of you or your spouses time.
2006-12-07 22:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Investigate him..maybe he's has a sickness with no cure, got black mailed, has a mistress or there must be something wrong with him or YOU that you didn't even notice. Or maybe that's he's nature.
Confrant with him or hire an investigator.
2006-12-07 22:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by Amycute 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sad, but most marriages today just don't last like they use to. Our kids are gonna be a bunch of basketcases.
2006-12-07 22:52:07 · answer #9 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear it.
at least you know now instead of wasting a dozen years with him.
try to learn something about yourself and get wiser the next go around.
2006-12-07 23:15:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋