Hey..
I'm15 and like a couple of days agao I wrote in cuz my exboyfriend broke up with about a week ago and then apparently slept with my very best friend ever and now i'm ignoring her at school and we don't talk. She told me in japonese that she's pregnant, but i don't see how this is possible? Is she lying and trying to get me angry or make me mad or just to iitate me!!!??? I can't stand it, they're going out now and he's like all cuddly with her, and iokay i'm not over him... but that point is she lying to me or is she telling the truth?? ean how can she be pregnant?? It's only been a couple of days!!! Now she's telling the entire school and everyone thinks she's a s-l-u-t- and she is but that not the point.. I don't know if I should believe her??? Would you?? How can I trust her?? i don't no anymore...
2006-12-07 14:38:04 · 19 answers · asked by sexybabe16 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i found out,she's been lying to me..and that she just did it to bug me and that my boyfriend didn't know anythingabout it, i mean ex boyfriend.. i confronted her andshe couldn't look my in the eyeitwas kind ofsatisfying..anyways thanks for all your fantastic answers!
2006-12-08 10:01:20 · update #1
i found out,she's been lying to me..and that she just did it to bug me and that my boyfriend didn't know anythingabout it, i mean ex boyfriend.. i confronted her andshe couldn't look my in the eyeitwas kind ofsatisfying..anyways thanks for all your fantastic answers!
2006-12-08 10:01:21 · update #2
As much as it hurts that 2 of the people you care most about have totally turned your life upside-down, think of it this way...this guy broke up with you to be with your best friend right? This makes him a pathetic loser who obviously cares nothing about women (especially if he's sleeping with your friend right off the bat), but now he's out of your hair...your ex friend now has to deal with his pathetic self for the rest of her life if she is pregnant, a loser father who just wanted a piece of a-s-s and probably doesn't love her, is now the father of her child...you think you're upset? Wait til all of this kicks into your friend's head and it all sinks in, she's going to be waaay more upset than you especially if he doesn't stick around. Trust me you'll be fine. Ignore her, ignore him, and move on. You deserve better and you WILL find better, you're only 15! You'll have plenty of boyfriends before you'll be ready to settle down...
2006-12-07 15:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by onitram5 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-06 05:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by Janet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-03 10:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he slept w/ her and didnt use protection or contraception failed she can be pregnant, remember it only takes one time to get pregnant so in a few days its possible. But I dont think a home pregancy test will work that soon. Like you said she could be lying to make you upset but dont let it get 2 u. But ask yourself some questions:
Do you still like him because hes w/ your friend and not you?
Are you willing to give up your bff b/c of a guy?
Are you 100% sure shes not pregnant?
Will you support her if she is? If she is she will need all the support she can get...teen preganancy is VERY hard.
If shes sleeping w/ this guy make sure that she uses protection, there are too many std's out there. Dont worry about the guy, your still young so there are sooo many other guys and you will find one that treats you better and if shes willing to treat you badly then maybe shes not as good of a friend as you thought she was. Friends dont lie to you, they always tell the truth even if it hurts.
Read this:
http://www.babycenter.com/refcap/preconception/gettingpregnant/2029.html
2006-12-07 15:04:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not good enough for you, first of all, if he's playing these games with you. And she's obviously not the friend that you that she was...I would ignore them both if I were you.
Unless she has been sleeping with him for a couple of weeks, there is really no way for her to know for sure that she is pregnant. She is just trying to upset you; don't let her get to you. I know that this is easier said than done.
You are 15; I PROMISE you that you are going to find someone that is worth your time and energy one day, but he is not that guy. Move on to someone better.
2006-12-07 14:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by meliss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way she could be pregnant with your ex's baby is if the two of them were getting it on before he broke up with you. Which is a possibility, I suppose. She doesn't sound like much of a friend if that's the case. If it has only been a few days, there's no way she could possibly know that she's pregnant, and she's a lying ho. Sounds like you're better off without either of them.
2006-12-07 14:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no possible way of finding out about a pregnancy only a couple of days after conception. IF she were pregnant, it would not be by your ex-boyfriend, unless they slept together when you were still with him. I think she's lying to you. You should forget about both of them. They aren't worth your time anymore and they don't deserve your friendship.
2006-12-07 14:42:27 · answer #7 · answered by Danelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new best friend, she seems like she's doing all this stuff to get you pissed off and she sounds like an utter tramp. And if it was only a couple of days ago that the had sex there's no way she can know she's pregnant or not unless she'd been banging him while you 2 were dating or before (however long you dated) and then she's an even bigger sluuuut.
*humming*The laaaaady is a traaaamp.
2006-12-07 14:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a friend she was... not really. I'm sorry- some girls are like that, it's stupid. Anyways, she could be lying to get attention,a nd to make you even more upset. I say to tell him and see what he says... then they might not be all cuddly. But, if it were myself, I'd probably just forget them both... they aren't worth it.
2006-12-07 14:59:30 · answer #9 · answered by m930 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on! Don't try to focus on the past and what has happened to you or your ex or your friend. It doesn't really affect your life at all, does it? Don't bother worrying about it!! Who cares if she is having a baby with him!?! Be happy that you didn't make the same mistake!
2006-12-07 14:40:48 · answer #10 · answered by Waverly Pascale 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋