Ok , so i'm not one of those poeple that puts tons of make up on her face at school, but all the people that i talk to at school think that i am really pretty, actually pretty and not fake. But the thing is, well lately i've had this feeling of being outside the crowd of my friends. I'm not sure what's happening, do they no longer like me? Why am i feeling so left out? I feel quiet, which I am not usually, i'm actually quite loud once people get to know me better. I don't even feel part of the group anymore. What should I do?
2006-12-07 14:17:28 · 11 answers · asked by cats_meow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
start looking for more friends elsewhere, only don't dwell on the negative side. Yall may be drifting apart and thats okay. Life happens. Just keep the good friends you can keep and always be on the lookout for more. You sound like a sweet person. I don't see why you would have much problem. Hang in there.
2006-12-07 14:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, your question is clear that is, thanks for providing a background on where your having these feelings.
Second, it is more important to note that you have positive qualities you are sincere. That is the main characteristic that maintains true friends. Being pretty is just icing on the cake.
Depending on your age you are going through feelings that maybe similar to what your friends are going through.
Change is suddel or somtimes it maybe a high impact change.
Approach your friends, if they are as sincere as you are it is worth the time and effort. You may approach one by one you will get better results. Ask your friends how are things? This may
stike up a conversation that you will better insight of what is happening.
They could be preoccupied with family problems, stress relating
to difficult situations.
The important thing is that you love youself.
Positive thinking will render positive assumptions. You may even consider that you may form your own group.
Cheer up, you are maturing this is normal. Changes are occuring with you and individually it is happening to your friends.
You will be surprised to know . The reasons you are coming up with is so far from the truth.
Again, remember when you strike up a conversation you will have a better handle on things.
Lastly, you may have evolved more rapidly (grow) that you need to give new people a chance to get to know you.
2006-12-07 22:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by cherryl w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have to worry about being part of a group. The key here is not to stop being yourself.
It could be a lot of things going on , changing friends, jealously, compliments from other people..many things occur.."As the world turns".....
Continue to be yourself, and stay friendly with others and your old friends, don't worry about being part of any group..
2006-12-07 22:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them and let them know how they are making you feel, they may either be jealous of you and the attention you get from others. If they still make you feel like this go find you some new friends you dont deserve them. Good luck sweetie!!!!
2006-12-07 22:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like sweet girl said it sounds like jealousy. find another group of friends
2006-12-08 01:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by jsxy695 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww! Sweetie! Everyone has to gone through that! Don't worry, if they are TRUELY your friends, they will love you no matter what!
Hope you feel better!
2006-12-07 22:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by Danys M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Don't be too loud. And think that you're still in the group.
2006-12-07 22:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by Joshua 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just plain jealous of your good looks. Dun worry about it. Its god's gift and accept it...
2006-12-07 22:19:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy! its a hellofa thang! hold your head high...they wish they had your natural beauty and confidence!
2006-12-07 22:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are naturally pretty, with no need for artificial beauty....then it could be jealousy
2006-12-07 22:18:49 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Sweet Girl♥ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋