Won't the feelings just return?
2006-12-07 14:07:08 · 18 answers · asked by rusalka 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No..let em go
2006-12-07 14:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can be friends with someone you once loved. The feelings prob will come back, but it doesnt mean you cant be friends, you will get adjusted to being just friends. It will just make you feel so much better to have this person be a part of your life again, you may even become thebest of friends. good luck sweetie
2006-12-07 14:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by munchkin0430 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the feeling may or may not return. if it was a clean break with closer that left you both in a position where you understood it was for the best. Then you could have a decent chance at being friends, you may love them again but as a friend/family not a lover or so forth.
2006-12-07 14:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very good friends with a man I once loved. The feels did not return. We grew apart in our relationship and as we grew apart even though we loved one another we were not "in love" with one another. We use to hang out, he was at my wedding and we still keep in touch. I still get mad at him for choosing women that use him for his money and his looks but one day he'll realize that on his own and wont think its because I'm jealous. Fact is Ive had him why would I be jealous.
2006-12-07 14:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you can be friends with someone you onced loved. People who were married and divorced do it all the time. It is possable that the feelings will return. But we have to learn to control our feelings. I know your probable saying some cant control there feelings. But take it from me. You eventually learn.
2006-12-07 14:12:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm friends with a lot of people that I used to date and love. I never jumped straight into the friendship right after the breakup. I waited a while and we would bump into each other and talk, Eventually we became friends. I also came to realize that I was very fond of them but that it wasn't really love. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck!
2006-12-07 14:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.. possible u can be friends, but no one is sure if the feelings will return specially if really loved each other before
2006-12-07 14:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you can...divorced couples do it all the time. If you don't open yourself up to "the feelings" then they should not return..keep in mind this is a friend now, not a lover...and remember why you broke up...
2006-12-07 14:10:11 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, there are differences between acquaintanceships, associates, and friends. When someone's friend of mine and a friend to me, it's forever. That's why I feel 'friendship' is an honor, not meant to be earned or given to everyone. For me, love is unconditional...so, yes, I can and will be.
2006-12-07 14:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good person with another person start with friendship. and usually they end up as they were sometimes feelings do resurface but you have to remember that its Friends just really great Friends.
2006-12-07 14:12:52 · answer #10 · answered by wewamom2503 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey isn't love begins with friendship? So what's new your already a friend of her/him right?? Only da thing is you cant be so loving & so friendly as you were used to. But don't lose a friend coz who knows someday you might need him/her more than anyone & he/she might will help you more than anyone too. so KIT. The most important thing is IF YOU GET A CHANCE TO HELP HER/ HIM......................
2006-12-07 14:16:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋