I am a man who has had custody of my son since 8 mos. The ncp mother was court ordered to pay child support, who now lives in Ohio. She has hiden her assists with family, money, car, ect., she has just gotten on SSI, with the help of the "family" business 14 mos ago and has not payed child support since then. Her condition is self-induced, she's 400+ pounds now and of cource has some medical problems because of her overeating. BUT, she is still working in the family movie theaters( which I have recordings of her advertizing the movie scheduals and my son now 8 sees her working in management position during visitations) Also, she has money to fly the boy from Texas to Ohio 2 to 3 times a year, pay for lawyers to keep me in court once or twice a year for reaccoring lies of missed phone calls, missed test paper one week, or school schedule notice not sent to her. How can this 400+ pound thorn be pulled from my side and be made to go on a diet and pay her child support?
2006-12-07 13:49:38 · 8 answers · asked by plainjustcountry 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
You really need to consult with a lawyer who specializes in family issues about all this. They have investigators who can track down her assets, if she really has any. There is an issue here more important than the money. Apparently, this woman has some emotional issues that may need to be taken into consideration, along with the "example" she is being to the child with her overeating problems.....
2006-12-07 14:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by beetlejuice49423 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh buddy...I have felt your pain! I worried about the same things. First, I'm not sure if Texas has this but there is a Support Enforcement agency where I live and they manage all the support through the state. Check to see if Texas has one. The application fee here was only $25 bucks. Then a hard lesson to learn but totally ignore her. Don't ask or expect the money....she is just looking to get you on a negative note like she apparently is living. For your sons sake, try to stay positive and forget the BS. I just agreed to anything my X said (didn't argue back, everything is great attitude, sure...whatever you say, my X figured out that I wasn't going to play the game any more. My X started leaving me alone...even with the courts. I hope this is some sound advise. It has made me and my children so much better to be HAPPY instead of going back and forth over everything. GOOD LUCK BUDDY!
2006-12-07 14:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough question, i split with my wife who had a supervisor position when my son was 7, and my daughter was 1. i agreed and payed her 100 a week, but my son came to live with me at the age of 8 and my daughter stayed with her..well she expected me to continue support at that amount and court proceedind after court proceeding the judge told her no support...you have one child him the other..its a wash...well she quit her job went on public assistance and continued taking me to court where my 400 dollar lawyer told me,look there just gonna keep hayling you in..just give her like 35 dollars a week. well i wasn't happy but decided to do so anyway. after a couple years guess what?..im back in court again paying more because she's on the system,sitting around all day while her *** gets as big as a house,my daughter is in school and the court seems ok with her not getting a damn job and taking care of her obligations. long story short iv'e been in and out of court for almost 11 yrs with her and its rediculous that the system allows this to happen. all i can tell ya is keep fighting do everything you can to get the results you deserve. after awhile it isn't about money anymore its more about whats right and whats wrong..good luck
2006-12-07 14:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by dave v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too bad that she doesn't understand that it's her responsibility to help support your son. Have you tried to fill a complaint with the ssi people that she may be working and have them do an investigation, because if she's working full time it's fraud and if she's working part time the money should go to help support the child. I hate dead beat parents, they just selfish. My step children's mother is the same way, last thing I heard was that she was prostituting herself for drugs.
2006-12-07 14:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by us5we2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a lawyer. Don't fight with her directly, you don't need to give her any ammunition. The lawyer will tell you what he needs from you, like documentation and witnesses and so on.
If you do it right, you will have her in jail for fraud, if she is breaking the law. Could be she is entitled to do some work while on SSI, but hiding assets to get SSI is not good.
But this is all iffy, hard to get proof, but it looks like it is there to some degree. Just be glad you are no longer living with her.
2006-12-07 14:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by sonyack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have one hell of a job on your hands. i would get my own lawyer if i were you. but from the sounds of her weight problem she isn't going to live too long. lawyers can prove that she's working and why does she need a school schedule if she's not the one taking care of him? sounds like she just wants to be a pain in your rear. she's feeding off the system is what it sounds like. gettin ssi and working. making her go on a diet well that's impossible ;) sorry that you're dealing with all of that i would get a lawyer.
2006-12-07 14:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 22:10:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you talked to a lawyer?
2006-12-07 13:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by kelly r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋