my best friend used to get abused by his step mom, he moved out and moved in with me and my dad we had to share a room including the bed, but we have never done anything, one night i woke up and he was crying and looked like he was in pain now he moved back in with his mom but he practically lives with me anyways now when hes not here and when hes with his step mom i wake up crying and i cant stop unless he comes to my house and helps me, him and i have grown closer than we ever thought we could now every night when he is here or isnt i wake up crying and if he is here hes holding me and trying to sooth/comfort me i know he doesnt hurt me and ive tried to get help im only 14 and i cant handle much more ive had 8 relatives die in the last 7 months and his dad just died and my other friends uncle who was like a dad to me died to i really have gotten professional help and ive talked to ppl at my school what should i do i cant stop these "nightmares"
2006-12-07 13:39:47 · 7 answers · asked by female football player 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hes like a bro to me and to my dad he is the son he never had im an only child
2006-12-07 13:45:16 · update #1
I'm sorry to hear about what's going in your life. It's not fair for somebody your age (and mine-since I'm your age) to experience so much like that. But it happens-whether we like it or not.
I suggest you'd talk to your school counselor if you really wanna get some counseling. I also think you are so close to your friend that you HAVE to have him at your side-which can be kinda bad if you wake up crying. I think you should talk to him. Maybe you have a fear that concerns him and you wake up crying b/c of that.
I also think that you should try to get your mind off all of this painful stuff that's going on in your life. I know you can't get it out permanently and all, but taking up a new hobby or just chilling with your friends at the mall or somewhere place you guys all like might help you forget your troubles for a couple of hours.
Lastly, I think you should journal. You don't gotta be the best writer or anything. You just buy a journal and write any time you don't feel happy or when you wanna remember something exciting. Writing in a journal will help you calm down-professional counselors recommend this and it works!
I wish you the best of luck!!
2006-12-07 13:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one when yuou get professional help did you tell them everything on your mind, your dreams, your feelings. Because it sounds like depression to me and there is medication for that. All you need to do is go to a shrink and he willprescribe some medication for you, If you still the same he can change it. Sometimes it takes a while for you to over come depression so go to a dr. quick and start. It's just probably an imbalance of the brain fliuds so go to it beofre it's too late. MAybe your friend needs to go too. Because when both of you are together and holding on to each other, you'll have made a security zone which can help but only temporary.
2006-12-07 21:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay ive got a quesion for you. why would your parents allow you to sleep in the same room, let alone the same bed with a guy at your age. thats also abuse.
2006-12-07 21:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray to the good lord above, or go to the church and talk to a priest.
2006-12-07 21:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your not crazy hes a sweet guy and you will alwayz be there for eachother you can go to eachother for nething and you never know sumthing could happen and you could be even closer ;)
2006-12-07 21:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by Lauren C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you poor thing. you and him are allways welcome at my house. :( nobody should have to go through christmas, let alone life with this mess.
2006-12-07 21:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by qtpie16707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get some meds.
2006-12-07 21:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋