The guy stole my enegry - my desire's ,And embarrased me while I was on stage,- and kept -interfering - when I made drum roll's, When I met this fool, my hope's and dream's -- were happy and learning was a blast - and I realize I let him - belittle me - and telling people he was my manger- I became to - Insecure - and truly- ashamed to be around- fellow musician's -- Now that I got rid of the fool -- I can't seem to get back - my want's and desire's - or my hope's and dream's -- P.S. Before he came along, I was so full of happy-wonderful cheer-- I'''''m not trying to be a star - I just had fun learning and playing - - How do I get ME- Back ? Bless any one that can give me idea's the more the merrier - - Thank -you - for your taking time to read my Question ?? ---- My name is Pattijo
2006-12-07 13:33:56 · 5 answers · asked by pattijohughes 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Music
first of all...take some time for yerself...enjoy the holidays...get yer focus and energy back... then go kick some serious butt on stage...
i do expect backstage passes for when yer band plays a sold out show here in daytona withing the next 6 months...(((HUG)))
2006-12-07 13:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all I would like to applaud you for getting rid of him!! You see so many times where girls are in abusive relationships and they stay with the jerks. What I would suggest is go to all your old favorite hang outs, get together with the people you use to jam with. Being around those people and at those favorite places will help you bring back your old self.
Good luck!!!
2006-12-07 21:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by medicswife23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would take time, but you would get it back some day!
And that idiot, has issues problems! He was a bully. And we all known that bullies are insecure and belittling gives them small bouts of pleasure. So remember that he is worse of then you, you have friends and people that actually like you, not ones that pretend to!
2006-12-07 21:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by Charlotte A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just like a kind of self-hypnotism, silently, in your head, constantly say things to yourself that are self-affirming, positive, kind, tender, loving, caring, patient, up-beat, up-lifting, wonderful, gentle, and empowering. Replace those negative thoughts with positive ones.
2006-12-07 21:40:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all you're definitely better off w/o him. second, just put your mind to what you want to do and focus- don't even think about him, since that's in the past and dwelling on it won't help. third, the past is done and over with and it should stay that way.
2006-12-07 22:24:30 · answer #5 · answered by squatch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋