He cheated on me (one night stand), The girl now has had a boy for him. He saying that he still wants to be with me!
I've tried to cut him out of my life, but it hasn't worked! He emails, txts. phones. aahhhhhh!
2006-12-07 13:29:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dont let his consistancy be his apology. He may be sorry for what he did, but he's just that.....SORRY. let him go. he wasnt thinking about calling and texting when he was up in the otha.....
2006-12-07 13:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by LNE 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask yourself a question-"Do i really want him back?"
At this stage you are in denial. You cut him out of your life but you receive -and possibly respond?-emails from him.and txts and phone.
Ahhhhh! you are right! The next stage would be how would you react if he fools again. I am sure that he will- because his one night stand produced something and you bought it. My guess is it is not a fling but one hell of good thing to produce an offspring. Now he is sick of it and wants you back coz he can't find any better-at the moment!
Stop believing your imagined kingdom. He is not the Lord of anymore find yourself a new hero and build your dreams from there.
Knowing you women, you will be back in his arms in due time,and will vbe fighting with her fling coz he has a baby boy to protect,and you will be smashing each other's cars or houses.
And you will be sending bad txts or emails and so on and sp forth.
Go on follow your instinct! Move in with him. Why follow an advice that is free! You follow an advice from a shrink coz it is expensive.I assure you that you are heading for trouble.
Good luck! Godspeed!
2006-12-07 21:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by wolfass 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did you like being cheated on? If not, then why would you be the "other woman" for a guy who wants to cheat? Treat others as you want to be treated.
Besides, the chick with the kid probably isn't the only one he ever cheated with...how many condoms would he wear so that you'd feel safe?
Have more pride than to screw around with your ex, to get back at his current girlfriend. She's made her own karma...why screw up yours for a mediocre lay?
2006-12-07 21:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be real, I don't think you have tried to cut him out of your life. I think you like the attention and want him to want you. If you didn't you wouldn't have to ask that question and wonder if you should link up with him. He obviously hasn't hurt you bad enough to the point of common sense. Please go back to him that way he can really screw you over and hurt your feelings to the point that you are serious about leaving him alone. It is a shame that it has to come to that point in order for you to get a grip. As long as he knows you want him to want you he can do whatever he wants! You make a nice door mat!
2006-12-07 21:35:52 · answer #4 · answered by Tri-trippin-Nelle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all you have to ask yourself do you like him? If you do you have to sit down and tell him and ask him if he really likes you too. Afterall you were only his one night stand. But anyways if you don't like him than tell him to stop everything he is doing and move along. If I was you I wouldn't go for it you were is one night stand he didn't treat you right and thought you were one of those chicks on the streets. That's seriously not cool. But anyways this is your life and you should make your own decisions. Hope things work out.
2006-12-07 21:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by sherry_pucca 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO!!!!!!! Consider yourself lucky that you ditched him already. Run in the other direction as fast as you can.
If he truly cared for you, he would have respected you and your relationship enough not to have been unfaithful. Once a cheat always a cheat. You deserve better than that type of treatment.
2006-12-07 21:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by Shelly M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, there must be something he's not happy in life or something missing in life with you? It could be sex, lifestyles, money not enough, some nag nag nag going on or etc etc. Ask ourselves a question first. If the nice lady are what he want, a sincere guy will alway give the every best, trust me
2006-12-07 21:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by blue 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he cheated on you before, he will probably do it again. I would tell him to leave me alone and go on with my life. Is he still with this girl? I would just keep him an ex. Find someone who is honest and faithful. Good luck to you.
2006-12-07 21:40:55 · answer #8 · answered by panther 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way I see it, this boy seems to really like you. Just give him one more chance. Everyone deserves a second chance. Go easy on the boy. If this guy is doing what you say he's doing, he must really really care about you. Give him one more chance. Even I wish I had one chance with her. Sorry, flashback there. I know just how this boy is feeling. just give him a chance.
2006-12-07 21:37:41 · answer #9 · answered by Ricky 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ignore and say you don't get them, if he still continues, file harassment charges. DON"T GET BACK TOGETHER. If you even think about the idea, remember why you guys broke up, and know that the problem will probably happen again if you guys get back w. eachother.
2006-12-07 21:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by Brecka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your ex needs to grow up and accept the responsibility his actions have laid upon him. He obviously still sees this girl who gave him a son. Is he thinking about the example he is setting for his child? I don't think so. If you hook up with him, I think you're likely to regret it.
2006-12-07 21:38:39 · answer #11 · answered by rtanys 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋