I've been married for 3 years been with my hubby for 5 years and have to small children. I am looking for a way to make it fun again!
2006-12-07 13:29:00 · 13 answers · asked by Cynthia G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get some sex toys and try some interesting and fun foreplay
2006-12-07 13:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by Ariella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try these books ,massage for lovers
302 ways to drive a man wild in bed
1001 way to be romantic
act like you are meeting eachother for the first time somewhere. ( go to a local bar, club, store and have him pick you up. Have a date night once a week or mos.
role play by dresing up
do something w/ ur appearance that you haven't done before eg: ( a radical haircut, different hair color, get your nails done, wear a skimpy outfit around the house, wear no underwear around the house w/ a short skirt, get a new/ diff. wardrobe)
give him love coupons, leave him an exciting message on his work phone put a note in his briefcase or pants pocket ( or your underwear in his pockets) b/f he goes to work then call him and tell him to "Check his pockets". Give him love coupons for a "free message", free lunch, free footrub, whatever you can think of or your hearts desire. Layout a garbage bag and get some baby oil but some on both of you and have "wrestling sex" . Get all the ingredients for a banana spilt and make one; on yourselves!Where there is no will, there is no way!
2006-12-07 13:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by lovelife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This always worked for me when I was married. Every time you have sex even if you do alot of the same stuff, cause some things just work better, make love like it will be the last time you are ever going to have sex again! P.S. it still werx even though I'm not married any more.
2016-03-13 04:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Role play is always fun. Some dress up and good old fashioned flirt. Maybe sneak a sexy pic in with his brief case can start up the fire, by the time he comes home and has the day to look at you and think about you can really get things going by the time he reaches the day. This has certainly worked on me in the past. Experiment a bit let your imagination go to work.
Good luck in love and life.
2006-12-07 14:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by Dyna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many many ways to spice the sex up up sweety(but you gota know what turns your man on and what makes you tick.
things like anal,threesomes,toys,bdsm,watching each other masturbating...doing it in places you never thoght you would. theres a sight www.telerotica.com. you will get plenty of idea's here and if give a specific desire that you have i will be able to help out a hell of alot more darling.
2006-12-07 14:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by JUS 4 FUN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave little notes, give him flowers, ask him to workout with you, give him regular massages. All these things bond . Also be honest with each other and open about your sexual desires, fantasies and inhibitions. He doesn't know more than you! Learn from a book or manual together. Make it fun .
2006-12-07 13:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by Lab 7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out the book, "The Joys of Sex". That should give you some ideas.
2006-12-07 13:32:32 · answer #7 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if there is a surprise party or book one they have alot of fun stuff for adults of course you must be eightteen to have a party its fun
2006-12-07 13:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by kris b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chips, dips, chains, whips, BBQ grill , whip cream, ice cream, champagne, hot oil , toys, how to videos,
2006-12-07 13:56:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break out the polaroid camera and take some hot photos
2006-12-07 13:34:25 · answer #10 · answered by Fergie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋