I am faithful to my husband but I am so in love with his brother and sometimes I wished I had married him. he asked me to marry him and I said no even though I wanted to. this was a long time ago, but I am still totally in love with him. He is in love with me to, but we live 300 miles apart and he and his wife are getting a divorce so he isn't commited anymore. Someone help!? I need as many suggest as you can give!!
2006-12-07 13:25:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to really think about this one. Say you were to leave your husband for his brother he will always want you to compare the two of them. It will only make matters worse. You married your husband for some reason you need to look at what you have. The grass always seems greener on the other side but problems will get worse if you were to leave your husband for him.
2006-12-07 16:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel really bad for your husband. why did you marry him when you have been in love with his brother all along? and why did you say no to his brother when he asked you to marry him? I wish I knew exactly what to tell you to make everything alright, but I don't. it just seems like someone's going to get hurt no matter how you go about it. this is the sort of thing that tears families apart.
if I can think of anything to help I'll get back to you okay, but this is a hard one.
take care.
2006-12-07 14:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds like you are in a really tough situation! But, reality check, you didn't marry him, you married your husband instead, and I am sure for good reason. Think about why you got married in the first place...even if you decided to leave your husband one day, that is his brother, it would not work out, there would be so many hurt feelings. Stop thinking about him and let him lead his life and you lead yours. Focus on the husband that you have right beside you and not the one you see in your dreams. You can make your marriage work but YOU have to work on that.....
2006-12-07 13:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by veronica c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wrong, get over him fast and fall back in love with your husband. Give your husband all the time you spend day dream about his brother. How can you be faithful when your heart and desires are somewhere else?
2006-12-07 13:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are a mess, don't put yourself in a bad situation. stay with your husband and work it out leave that other problem where he's at 300 miles away your didn't marry him because you didn't love he. don't do something you will regret later. you are only thinking of him because you are probably mad with your husband but you know what Betty wright said " no pain no gain"
2006-12-07 13:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by sexychocolate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce and then find someone your ex doesn't know. Women that mess with family members or associates expose the hidden trashy side of women. Anything else would be extremely selfish.
2006-12-07 13:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by Lab 7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 05:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by pape 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg , your asking for trouble there! you need to just forget this man an be a wife again.
2006-12-07 13:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're making this up to get attention. Your story simply doesn't ring true.
2006-12-07 13:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart
2006-12-07 13:28:21 · answer #10 · answered by Jvana 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋