2006-12-07 13:10:19 · 23 answers · asked by Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Even in marriage nobody is responsible for your happiness but you. Relationships require more than just an initial bonding. They need care and feeding to sustain the rigors of everyday life. Most people are ill prepared and unwilling to put in the effort. If you want to walk with someone try to find a path you both can share and happiness will follow you.
2006-12-07 13:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is the greatest gift God gives to a man and a women. We as humans are the only ones privileged to such an honor. I look at my parents who have been married 57 years and love each other more each and every day. Yes marriage is worth it and people are truly happy!
2006-12-07 14:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by Sally B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the same as asking is there any person who's perfect...
No one is perfect and neither are marriages BUT marriage is such a pure relationship...it is what you make it...you have to compromise and you have to be sincere and most importantly RESPECTful to one another...Marriage in my opinion is a wonderful thing...like any relationship whether your single or married there are ups and downs..but honestly its when the down time comes that eventually make you even closer to your husband or wife...again lots of you might disagree with me and some might agree..but we are all allowed to say what we really think and i told you what i totally believe in...
I think its worth getting married people can be truly happy.
There is no point in living a single life and moving from one person to another...what is the purpose of that...pleasure?
what will you end up with?----Nothing! marriage brings so many other joys that you can only know when you get married...you have a family you get so many joys out of life that a single/bachlore life will never bring.
But remember marriages only work if your willing enough to try and to be sincere to your husband or wife...
i think thats enough out of me ill just keep writing nonstop..so i think tis best if i stop here..
2006-12-07 13:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by neverendingstars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is worth the experience.Although marriage remains one of the most enigmatic relationships in the world, yet you cannot do without it.Get into it wholeheartedly with all the formulae of leading a good married life.If it works out you will be in seventh heaven, and if doesn't you will turn into a philosopher end up being highly knowledgeable person.You may achieve something significant by doing social or scientific or religious work or literary work for which you will be remembered after your death.My final impression is that it is better to get married to acquire knowledge of life and matter, whether or not it is successful.
2006-12-07 13:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is hard work. You've got to want it bad, because it's going to put up a fight. In my case, it's worth it. I love my wife dearly, completely and without condition. I wouldn't have her any other way than the way she is and I can't imagine what my life would be like without her. Sure, there are rough times, just like any other facet of life. They serve to make you appreciate the good times and how great they can be. Now, I don't know if this makes me the exception to the rule or what, but I feel very lucky and very loved. I think it's worth it.
2006-12-07 13:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by rtanys 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm happy with my husband...we've been together 10 years and married for 4. He aggravates me sometimes but I'm sure he can say the same about me. But I still get a big smile on my face whenever I see him and I still get butterflies in my stomach when I hear his voice on the phone. So yeah with the right person it's worth it.
2006-12-07 13:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there's a lot of value in being married. It's the start of having a family, it's about sharing yourself with someone that you love.
As for being truly happy, marriage has its highs and lows. It's what you put into it that equates to what you get out of it.
2006-12-07 13:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm truly happy. Marriage takes work sometimes, but anything worth anything does, in my experience.
2006-12-07 13:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
to be honest i dont think so. first of all i think that we all lose focus on what a marriage is and that is a second job.all those story book romances from the soaps throw them out the window they dont happen, all those romance novels are just what they are pur fiction. you have to be willing to accept what the other person has to offer and usual it always is not what you want. If you ever have a male best friend thats the person you should marry , marriage should always be a friendship first
2006-12-07 13:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is all worth it. and i am truly happy to the man i married 26 yrs. ago.
2006-12-07 13:14:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋