2006-12-07 13:06:06 · 31 answers · asked by ©smegma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ONLY when A question like this arises, or G forbid I run into him. I wish him well but oh so happy I got over that one! Have you ever felt like , " Wow! That was a total waist of time?" Yup! That is how I felt about it.... No need to re hash this over and O V E R ! UGH!
2006-12-07 13:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
Unfortunately, I had way too many relationships and every time I thought I'm inlove.
I'm married now for almost five years and there is one thing I know - even on the wedding day I didn't love my husband as much as I do now.
Love is something you work on, not something you fall in or out of.
And NO, I don't think about my first love(s), the only way I sometimes think about them is with regret that I wasted too much time and emotions and myself on them.
Keep on going; don't get stuck in the past. MAKE your current relationship better.
2006-12-07 21:14:04 · answer #2 · answered by TATAAAAAH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
But I am married to the first person I fell in love with.
We both were just out of bad marriages when we ran into each other at a birthday party and started talking again. Well one thing led to another and here we are.
2006-12-07 21:10:47 · answer #3 · answered by Just curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the feelings with the first love are strong . . . something you will likely never forget. There's no problem with that, as long as you don't go back and try to be with them, when you are already in a relationship with someone else.
The memories from the first one stay, whether it turned out good or bad. Keep those memories with you as a special time in your life, and grow from them.
2006-12-07 21:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I still think of my first love even though I'm committed. I was with my first love (Steven) for almost 2 years and I've been with my current love (Josh) for over 2 years, and I still think of Steven from time to time. You'll never stop thinking of your first love. Part of your heart is still going to be with them. It doesn't mean you love your current love any less.
2006-12-07 21:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by behind_blue_eyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Cause tHats the first person you open your heart to. its normal. even when you are old and look back you can NEVER forget your first love. so its normal. Especially when you see them everyday! LOL youll be allright cause if your commited to this other person you lIke them right? Just LEt It go cause if you dont youll be wasting your valuable time.
2006-12-07 21:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by celeste 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may sometimes recall past loves...but I don't think about them in the sense of missing them or playing experiences with them over in my head.
It's okay to have memories of former loves and lovers, but if you aren't over a relationship and given it closure, then you have no business being with someone else.
Would you like it if you knew your partner was thinking about their past loves?
2006-12-07 21:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think of him every moment of every day and I love him with all my heart. he's my husband. he's the first and only. and we are in a very happy and committed relationship. it was honestly love at first sight for both of us.
2006-12-07 21:30:09 · answer #8 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But he's married w/kids and the fact that he chose her shows he didn't want me, so when I think about it I keep that in mind as well. As a matter of fact, the sex wasnt that great either come to think of it.
2006-12-07 22:04:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to be with that person, but I think of my ex's from time to time, more just like, I wonder what they are up to.
It used to get to me more than now, I'm over all my ex's now.
2006-12-07 21:08:30 · answer #10 · answered by -- 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋