And she was like a re bound becouse i had just got out of my relationship and was hurt. but i started talking to this girl but she was always negative and she was kinda abusive mentaly. but she also was a sweetheart. but becouse she was so negative i decited to leave her alone but we did have sex but now she is talking to her ex should i be jealous?
2006-12-07 13:00:44 · 15 answers · asked by RAINBOW 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Looks like you already are. Seems like you got attachment in addition to the sex and it is perfectly normal. But the question is, should you do something about it?
If she is just your rebound girl, then you must not be evaluating your situation well when you hooked up with her. And since you left her (before she was talking to her ex) because she is "abusive" then you don't really like her all that much... But now that she is talking to someone else, you're feeling quesy.
Nothing wrong with what you're feeling, but I don't think you should go back to her, or you'll have the same "abusive" problems all over again.
2006-12-07 14:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't be jealous because she's not the right girl for you. You should find a better girl, one who isn't mentally abusive. Just because you had sex doesn't mean you have to stay. Get away before she abuses you more.
2006-12-07 21:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by cuteblondecrystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you shouln't be beacause in the first place, you're not comitted to her right? But it seems you're jealous when you have seen her talking to her "ex" so that means you have the feelings for her.. Try to realize if you have a feeling for her, and if you does, express your feelings before its too late.. remenber you'll never know the future, life is short, make the most of it.
2006-12-07 21:07:29 · answer #3 · answered by confused_lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she did all that to you, then I think you could do way better sweetie, there is no need to be jealous, but believe me I know why you may feel that way. The best advice I could give is to not deny what happened, but accept it and move on. . .
2006-12-07 21:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by falling12605mph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are jealous, because you wouldn't be asking this question if you weren't. if you like the abuse then stay with her, if not then leave her. it seems that both of you are just on the rebound and is just trying to get it with someone for the meantime.
2006-12-07 21:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm. i think u should move on with ur life, and find someone else. y would u want to be with someone who is abusive, whether it's mental, or not. u deserve better. u need someone that is positive, and will make u happy. i don't think she is the one for u.
2006-12-07 21:15:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over. No you shouldn't be jelous. That's selfish and petty.
2006-12-07 21:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by erynnsilver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be jealous. Move on.
2006-12-07 23:46:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not should you be jealous - but are you jealous - doesn't matter how you should be feeling - feelings aren't rational.
Good Luck!!!
2006-12-07 21:04:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if you aren't a lesbian bt if you are then kind of.
2006-12-07 21:10:00 · answer #10 · answered by luvergirl79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋