Hey, I know what you mean; I have a hot/cold friend too. It used to really piss me off, but I eventually just accepted that as the way she was and that no matter how rotten her mood was, it would be different in a day, no hard feelings. I duck and cover when she acts like that because, really, there's nothing I can do to change it, and she will never accept that she's being a jerk.
Just categorize her as one of those friends who can be temporarily unavailable but can still be a great friend. It's really frustrating, I know, but it's a quirk of their personality. Once you accept that, you'll find yourself just rolling your eyes when she gets like that and quietly excusing yourself without feeling hurt.
2006-12-07 13:05:59
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answered by tolstoy 1
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wen she gets bitchy just tell her that her act is getting old and to make up her mind... u shouldn't be taking this kind of emtional abuse. this is how it starts so end her actions once and for all.
2006-12-07 13:01:48
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answered by Ta Ta 1
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ask her y shes bitchy 2 u and tell her to quit it or u wont be her friend. tell her that she can either be herself or a fake that no1 likes
2006-12-07 13:08:25
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answered by FullMoon 2
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i`ve ben in the same situation u r in don`t worry about that ***** AS LONG AS SHE DOESN`T TRY TO TAKE YOR MAN U WIL B OK FROM aaliyahburch@yahoo.com e-mail me
2006-12-08 09:00:37
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answered by aaliyah 1
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Why do you keep dealing with her. I would leave her alone permanently. There is no need to continue a friendship with someone who is so hateful. God bless****
2006-12-07 12:59:28
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answered by ? 7
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well you sound like u got an attitude i say change urself then u can understand her....there we go
2006-12-07 12:59:02
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answered by Funk-Ski Biznez Man 4
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I hate to tell you but your friend is crazy and she has split personality stay away from her
2006-12-07 12:59:02
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answered by mrsdg01 2
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just defend ur self, dont worry about urself, maybe u shouldn't be frends with her!
2006-12-07 12:57:47
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answered by Anonymous
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you either handle it maturely and ignore her or beat her a**
2006-12-07 13:06:10
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answered by Lauren C 1
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are you sure its her? not you?..........
2006-12-07 12:57:57
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answered by Anonymous
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