My husband and I have been separated for almost 6 months. I have just recently found out that not only was he with someone else not 2 weeks after we separated, but has been with several other people. We told each other that we would be honest with each other about other relationships we have, so I don't know how to take this info. Now he wants to get back together. What should I do? I know ultimately the decision is up to me, but I would like some feedback on this, from both males and females.
2006-12-07 12:46:39 · 5 answers · asked by rocknrollmom19812 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Can you forget the things he did while you were separated? If yes, then take him back. If you can't get past those things then no don't take him back.
2006-12-07 12:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by Amy R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What broke you up in the first place? Any changes there? If not, why would it work this next time? How many women has he slept with since you broke up? Can you live with that? How many guys for you? Can he live with that? Are you willing to forgive and forget? Lots of questions to answer I know......but they are "food for thought!" Good Luck!!
2006-12-07 20:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no! This was his playtime and now he wants to get serious? So when he gets bored with you he'll say "It was fine the last time I did it" and wham! Herpes for you.
2006-12-07 20:49:17 · answer #3 · answered by Sugarshots 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the STD test comes back negative ... Go for it.
2006-12-07 20:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
WHY WOULD YOU WANT A CHEATER BACK??
2006-12-07 20:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by mamaexfour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋