Girls who are 20 or 21 and already have 3+ kids....
2006-12-07 12:38:28 · 29 answers · asked by two_kee_kees 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I think having 3 or more kids at this young age is wrong. If someone has 3 kids at 20 or 21 then that means they've been having kids since high school. It shows a lack of responsibility and self esteem. Especially if it's not even the same dad.
2006-12-07 12:58:51 · update #1
I think they are wasting the best part of their young lives being tied down with children that they should be having later in their tweenties and thirties. Plus that many children at such a young age is a big responsibility for the parent or parents to handle. People in their twenties should be out having fun with people their own ages not changing dipers,cleaning puke ect.. I love being a mother but I'm glad I waited untill I was more mature and more responsible.
2006-12-07 12:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by Alena F 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋
I try not to judge. I'm 21 and have one kid. I do know girls just like what you're talking about. Sometimes the girls are good mothers and they do fine. Sometimes it's so sad for the kids. They always go without because the mother can't get a good job. It depends on the kind of person they are. You can't really say unless you know the person.
2006-12-07 20:42:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Thats ok. It's ok if a girl has 3+ kids when she is 20 or 21.
2006-12-07 20:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am 22 and I have 2 kids I think I started too young but I have matured alot faster than most 22 yr olds so to answer your ? I think as long as they take care of themselves and their babies and have a supporting spouse or boyfriend family whatever to help I don't see a prob. But if they just aren't being careful and have numerous baby daddys I think they need to sit back and think about their children b/c it is not easy in the real world it seems so fun and exciting being preg. but when the baby comes all fun and games is over and you have to take parenting seriously!!!
2006-12-07 20:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. I have 3 children, but then I'm 27. Some people mistake my wife for a woman that age. I'm not even sure its OK to disrespect these -women- with the term -girl-.
2006-12-08 00:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by BigPappa 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i think at first glance most people would judge a person with that situation (or similar one) as they would judge someone who was a "young mom" in other words maybe they were somewhat a "whore" in there younger days and this is the way it ended up. but then again people arent always what they seem so it all depends on the person.
2006-12-07 20:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by sillygurll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by saying "these types of people?" That sounds a little arrogant....as for your question, I am a mother of three. I had my third child at the age of 22. I am happily married, run a successful business, and my children are happy and doing very well in school. So, I think "these types of people" are great and just fine, thank you!
2006-12-07 20:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by tdmatte 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
i will be 20 when my 2nd child is born. its your personal opinion. some people might think you are wrong for NOT wanting kids. people make mistakes (even tho i dont think any child is a mistake) and you shouldnt judge people. a good parent is a good parent at any age regardless of age, income, education , etc.
2006-12-07 21:49:53 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley N 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if they have 3, they probably want kids and really like them. i don't have a problem with it, i think it is a personal choice and if ppl have a problem with i they should mind their own business.
2006-12-07 20:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Seriously... I don't think girls this age should have so many children especially if they are not working;it shows some bit of irresponsibility. That they can't control their lives.
2006-12-07 20:45:27 · answer #10 · answered by Sebrina C 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋