WhAt ShOuLd I dO???
There is this really hot guy at my school and i have only one class with him. I really like him and we flirt alot but he is going out with some one who is a friend and they are in a seriuos relationship. what should i do? I cant control myself and i dont want to hurt my friend!!!
we cant avoid eachother because we have project that we need to do together. I just got an IM that he has a crush on me...now we like eachother but he is with someone else!!! NOW WHAT DO I DO?
2006-12-07 12:26:49 · 23 answers · asked by Rory 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
he wouldnt cheat on anyone! if he wants to hook up, he will break up first...he is very religious and he is so sweet and funny and nice, but i know that he really likes his GF
2006-12-07 12:38:41 · update #1
talk to him. say "who do you like?" say "i dont want to hurt my friend!"
2006-12-07 12:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by italiandancer2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the guy is probably feeling the exact same way. Just wait a while until they break up (im sure they will soon). Your friend might already know that you like him. Just dont talk about it and have a great time on the project. (this also is a great story, for saying you started liking him during the project later)
2006-12-07 21:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by dKM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying that you are flirting with your friend's bf while they are in a very serious relationship?
I realize you must like him very much to break these unwritten yet very important rules of friendship and dating. But you can't say that you can't control yourself. That excuse doesn't work in the real world. Ask anyone in jail why they did it and they will answer you that they couldn't control themself!
What you should do instead trying to get him to break-up with her (after all how realiable can an IM be... plus if he actually cared enough he would say it in person) is for you to stop unknowingly trying (what with the flirting and the daydreaming about being with him) to break the two of them up.
And if they break up over you, do you realize how painful that will be for your friend, especially if you go out with him right after!!! She will feel like you two were betraying her behind her back even if you really weren't. Trust me, my BFF's BF broke up with her to be with me and even though I turned him down I've kept her friendship for years, he got over me in weeks.
As for the project, do not sit near him, do not flirt with him, do not act differently with him. The project is business not flirt time, remind yourself of that if you really have to.
2006-12-07 22:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by Tweety bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to wait to see if he is a real man and breaks it off with your friend. Then give it some time and tell her he likes you. Nothing about the past and that he broke up with her to be with you. It just happened now. Hope she is understanding. Or decide wheather you want her or him
2006-12-07 20:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop with that!!!!!
If he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you,
As the proverb says
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
He only wants fun, will you allow him that?
If you really loves your friend, stop with that.
The only you have to do, is to be a good friend.
Dont mess your life with something like that!!!!
There are thousands of guys outside.
Go for one without a gf.
Good luck
2006-12-07 20:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by حلاَمبرا hallambra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont rush into things like notes and all that just see what happens in a few weeks and if notin make a move but nothing like you see on t.v.be as honest as you can be.
2006-12-07 20:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by Aces747 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i can break just about anybody up if i really wanted to. first, get tight revealing clothes. flirt all the time. get his sn talk about yourself and things you have done in the past with your realtionship and scatter a few embarasing moment or bad things about his gf. it that doesnt work just wait for them to break up on there own.
2006-12-07 20:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by i'm ryan. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell the guy that you like him and that u dont want to do anything to hurt ur friend see where the next few weeks take u after u have told him
2006-12-07 20:33:54 · answer #8 · answered by CHARLIE W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!!! your friendship should be more important to you than a guy! that's breaking one of the most important girl rules! If they break up(not because of you) talk to your friend first to get her opinion on the situation, but if she says no, don't!!
2006-12-07 20:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by pitas4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who sent you the IM?
I would wait for him to make the first move. But honestly, how old are you? If you are still in high school, then I would make a move. If he doesn't go for it, then you could deny it.
2006-12-08 20:46:37 · answer #10 · answered by glowe126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could tell him do u really like me and if he says yes than be like well i like u too but i don't want to hurt my friend..... .then maybe just play it out and hope for the best
2006-12-07 20:43:36 · answer #11 · answered by nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋