I have a ex gf that i dated for 3 years. I lived with her for 2 and half. Our relationship started when were 17 we acted like we were married and had kids. We both had jealousy problems badly. I know that i did even though she has never givin me the reason to be. Its been 2 and half months now and she still contacts me i think she still loves me but she cant handle the jealousy and arguiing. Is it ok for her to go out to bars and hang out with friends guys/girls. I love her alot and want her to give me another chance she says to show her i changed. what you think the chances are she is serious?
2006-12-07 12:25:30 · 2 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well - at 21 or 22 - not much of a chance there. Most women - and men - don't truly grow up until about 30. Unitl that time - you aren't sure of who you are - or really trust anyone else. I see so many people in relationships - and married at a young age now a days - but truthfully - you all aren't ready for it. When you get over being jealous - and she does to - and to accept that other person for what they do and who they are - JSUT AS THEY ARE - then MAYBE a relationship might work.
2006-12-07 13:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by Kari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your girl obviously care for each other very much. Please read the lyrics to the song "Hold On Loosely" by
the band called: 38 Special. This will help explain what I mean. Enjoy each other's company. Think good things and good things will happen. The jealousy stuff and negative stuff will go away, when you are thinking good things. Once again enjoy each other, because every minute of life is precious. I am lucky to be here, because I was almost in a very bad car accident a long time ago. From that point forward I was thankful to be alive.
2006-12-07 12:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋