this guy named Michael in school is very athletic and im not so athletic yet im very smart and make good grades etc. Michael knows i like him hes REALLY popular all of his friends hate me his bro likes me and he likes me too all 3 of us know that it will give our friends a bad rep if we date or even act like we are friends after school i go over to his house and help him babysit his12 lil sibs, hes the oldest and when we arent in school we are always together and we don care what ppl think of US just what they think of my friends what should we do???? it is driving us crazy we "love" each other and hes a little upset about his bro bcause he likes me too Mike is one year older and his Daniel is my age, we dont know what to do and its driving us nuts i know that we shouldnt care but our school is BRUTAL about this kind of stuff.
2006-12-07 12:09:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
look....just date him...who cares wut others say.
2006-12-07 12:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I really understand your question. I'm in a relationship right now with ome one i really love. And for a while everyone was mad cause how we met was not according to the custom of my religion. THis bothered us greatly, but we were and still are in love. My advice to you is to go woth your heart. THink of this. When you graduate, where will all those pwople be ? Off with their own lives right. So if you let what they say bother you now, and hinder what you want to do, they will have happy lives with whomever they choose, and you will be unhappy. In the end none of that petty stuff matters, you graduate become adults and notice that not everything someone says, should affect your heart. Hope this helps
2006-12-07 20:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by kklshsbs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you two think what everyone in school thinks is important but it's .It's not even important what you all friends think either all that really matters is that you two "love" each other. As you go through life you aregoing to meet a lot of superficail pepole and trust me if someone is really your friend they are not going to push you aside because everyone else don't like it. Also if you two really care about each ohter then the hell to what everyone else thinks. I say go for it.
2006-12-07 20:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by sedisticvixen25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its BRUTAL about this then sounds like ur doing a ok job at hiding it... u should think about telling everyone u guys are going out. but hey if u realy dont want to.. then sneak into his room for the privacy u want or the bathroom at his house... or have him over to ur house on a friday and tell him to tell all his friends and bro he has to help his dad w/ something and get his dad in on the plan or something.
2006-12-07 20:14:31 · answer #4 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have the mentality, "Screw what other people think, doing this will make me happy, my job is not to please other people." If your friends have a problem with someone you care about, then they aren't very good and supportive friends. Please just don't think about other people's opinions, if both you and this guy think that dating will make you both extremely happy then just go for it and ignore the arrogance and ignorance of your friends, they're just jealous.
2006-12-07 20:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by caitymercede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw ur friends!!!!!
if they cant support you then they aren't your real friends!!!
tell them that you love him and your not going to give him up because they dont like him (same for your boyfriend)
2006-12-07 20:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by Night visions 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anytime a girl and boy are good friends, they end up dating, they always say they wont, but they always do.
2006-12-07 20:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by Jordan Watkins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope you didn't use his real name on here.....
2006-12-07 20:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by Up your Maslow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... don't waste another minute ... run away now and live happily-ever-after ...
2006-12-07 20:14:44 · answer #9 · answered by Santa's Helper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shut you're ******* mouth and suck his penis have sex and enjoy!
2006-12-07 20:13:23 · answer #10 · answered by ~misZ khImMi bHeibi~ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋