Girls: Would you go for a guy like me?

Question

I mean, come on, I try to be the best I can be, the nice guy, the smart guy, the one who's creative, but do I see girls around my locker? No.

Hey, I be myself, but I'm sick and tired of everyone saying I can't have a girl and I never will.

You think it! I'm a StepMania person. I play DDR. Hell, my MySpace song is the Super MAX Me remix of MAX 300!

I'm only 12, birthday's in two months, and I'm 5'5. I'm a black-haired, brown-eyed math freak.

If you look at the answers I've given to legit people (ignore the ones to Ryan, he's stupid), you'll see I'm nice and I go into the fields of math and DDR.

It's just that this day has been bad. I need some support from the opposite sex!

This just in, Justin: I won't drop it! I got honors classes!

Others, I am 12, and had an excellent weight loss in the past seven months: 150 lbs to 125. Thanks to DDR!

One more thing, I seem like the girls are treating me like dirt, sayin' I'm ugly.

Here's the space just in case: http://myspace.com/wastelandsk8r

And, uh, yeah, that's it for now.

Answer 1

Aaw, you seem like a cool person, but c'mon ur so young, what's the rush? just wait and see, you'll find someone right for you. Also, if you're too nice girls might just see you as a friend, so watch out for that.

Answer 2

I'm not really the type of person to 'go' for anyone- I'm not outgoing at all. But maybe you'd be the person who I'd secretly admire/wonder about (but not in a stalkerish way- more in a "I wonder what he's like" sort of way).
Except I'm 13 1/2, 5'6'', and you're a bit young for me.
Girls in the middle school years are just weird, and even I have to admit it. Maybe you're just attracting the wrong type of girl- not the outgoing type who'd stand by your locker, but the shyer kind. Do girls talk to you in class? That could be a clue.
Another thing could be that they still see you as the heavier you, even though you've changed, because it takes alot to override previous memories.
As for saying geek(y) people can't get girlfriends, some guy at my school's brother school (I go to an all girls school) is the epitome of geekines, and not what people would call hot, but somehow in the past half-year, 5 of my friends have been open about liking him- because he is funny.
And I've never heard people saying that they think that a guy can't get a girl, unless they're talking about him behind his back, or saying it jokingly, because to do that is really mean.
I believe that you're legit, and I'm not a stalker or anything like that, but you say your 12 and then 14, and that you live in Texas and the Florida? Hmmmm....
I'm sorry that your going through this, but honestly, there isn't much that I can say beside girls are bitchy. But good luck with everything.

Answer 3

Hmm well I'm 14 and I don't really go for younger guys but you got black hair... and that's hot and so is DDR (i lurve DDR) 5' 5" is pretty good because if I were interested in you you would have to be taller or the same height (and i'm 5' 4" so... yeah.) nice, smart, and creative are always good in my book and alot of other girls' that I know.

Don't let other people get you down I had the same problem and I have a bf now... Well actually we just broke up but it was a 11 month long relationship and i broke up with him so that's got to count for something ^_^. Anyways... Just ignore what they say they're just dumb.... **** them....

Hope I made you feel better!

Happy Holidays!!

Answer 4

I just want to answer you cause you're funny. Who makes the most money in the end....Math and science majors. Start working towards being a Dr. Forget about the now. Think about how HOT you'll be as a 25yr old resident for some hospital in "big city somewhere". You'll be all grown up and if you're still sweet, girls by then will be over their obsession with jerks. They'll be clawing at your door....Just you wait and see! Besides dating isn't really fun until you can at least drive, and afford the "good" dates that come with food. Who wants to say..."My mom can pick you up to take us to the movies" NOPE ....just stick to being friends for now.(Friends can still kiss you know)

Answer 5

You answered your own question: you're only 12.

Don't worry about dating or relationships yet. You're not ready for them. I wasn't ready for dating or relationships at 12. Just enjoy being yourself and allow yourself to grow some confidence in yourself. Maybe develop a few female friends, that are JUST friends - one of my best friends has over 50 female friends, no exaggeration. He's been collecting us since 7th or 8th grade.

Honestly, you sound like a nice kid. Don't worry about what every one else says. It's your opinion that counts.

If I had a 12 year old daughter, I wouldn't let her have a boyfriend, but I'd let her be friends with you. I might even trust you alone with her in my living room. Because you sound like a stand-up young man.

You've got years ahead of you. 7th grade is a pain for everybody.

Answer 6

aaaaaawww, you sound like a nice guy. You seem fine 2 me, so im not gonna give you ne advice. I could give you advice to do things like change or hang different places., but if i told you that then youd change and you wouldnt be you. c where im going here. If u change or nething than there isnt much point dating as they wont b dating the real u. I believe theres someone for everyone, so u just gotta keep lookin.b urself and thats all you can do at the end of the day.

Answer 7

Okay, this is how it is. When people are young, like your age, the females are liking the rude, obnoxious type. Then when they are 16-18 they are mature and are into the guys like you. So it may not be tomorrow, but just know that the stars are in your favor, just keep being you. (Now you know a little why women are called complicated, sorry I cannot share all of our secrets.)

FOR THE ONE that made the loser comment, the only losers are those who find it necessary to build themselves up by creating another's pain.

Answer 8

You are 12, going on 13? You have plenty of time to worry about girls. At this age girls and guys generally do not look at the opposite sex's best qualities.

If youare smart, honest, nice, and treat women right when you get older then you have nothing to worry about.

Answer 9

You sound perfect for my neice Karolyna... but she has a bf. I would say keep ur chin up! There are plenty of fish out in the sea, maybe u just need a 2nd chance.
♥ The campbell family: Olivia, Blaine, James, Emma and Madison

Answer 10

Dude i would not worry about it yet. Im a freshman in high school, and when i was 12 i never had a gf or anything. But since I have got to high school i have had two. There is someone for everyone in high school. Dont let it bother you.