My mom found something in my room and I think the world is over for me?

Question

Am 13 I have a celendar that my brother gave me. It s stupid thing that he does and I said I wanted one. Everytime I use to have sex with my ex-gf I write it in the carlendar and the ladies I plan to...I thought I losted it but I was in my moms room playing hide and seek with my little sister and I found it in my moms draws I think she is gonna show my dad when he comes I don't want to take it cuz I will get in more trouble they will know..Should I take it or leave it there.
I think either way the world is over for me
Should I be panicing

Jessica and snddupree you people arer dumpasses if you don't what reality i. For your info this is my life

Answer 1

tell them thoese were import dates like ..... the your first kiss.......... a dtae u were supposed to go on etc

Answer 2

Why on EARTH are you having sex at 13?

Frankly, I'm rather glad your mom found it, and I hope she does show it to your dad. I also hope they discuss it together calmly and figure out a plan to deal with it. It's obviously too late to tell you to keep it in your pants.

I hope you used protection EVERY SINGLE TIME.

Though, if the girl you were having sex with turns up pregnant, you'll at least have a good idea of when she got pregnant.

Please, just concentrate on school.

If your parents discuss the situation calmly, hopefully when they choose to deal with you, they won't shout at you. Because shouting will not help the situation any - it'll just aggravate it. That means you shouldn't shout either, no matter how frustrated or angry you get. Your parents are concerned about you, they care about you, and they want what's best for you. That's why you're still considered a child - because you're not old enough to figure out what is best for you and what you just want.

I think you should stop having sex and definitely not plan to have sex with any more girls until at least 10th grade. Maybe 11th grade.

I can't even fathom having sex with someone any younger than I did. (I gave away my virginity when I was at the end of 8th grade, to a boy in 11th grade. NOT a good decision, trust me. This does not mean you should have sex with 8th graders when you're in 11th grade. It was a bad decision on his part, too.)

The most I ever did with a boy before Chuck (the one I lost my virginity to) was hold hands or kiss. Sometimes we'd play video games together or go on walks or talk on the phone. Because it's not really a relationship when you're in 8th grade. You're just "going with" someone - or that's what they called it when I was in middle school.

Honestly, just enjoy being 13. It's a misery, it's beautiful, you change so much at that age, it's wonderful, it's fun, it's life-changing - just be 13. You don't need to have all your life experiences before you even learn to drive.

Good luck with your parents, and hopefully you won't be one for another 10 years or so.

Answer 3

wow... I would say you should apologize to your parents and explain the whole thing. FYI i'm a mother of 3 kids: a 5 year old son James, and 4 month old twin girls Emma Lee and Madison. If James was your age I would take it and hope that he finds it. I would want him to be man enuff to stand up to me and tell me the truth, instead of finding out behind his back. I never had a close relationship with my parents because I was the wild child kind, and then when they died in 9/11 I realized what mistakes I had made, trust me: being trustworthy (which I wasn't) is what parents respect most, I love it when James is honest with me about stuff.
♥ from the Campbells: Blaine, Olivia, James, Emma Lee and Madison

Answer 4

Well...I think you should take it, and if your dad askes where it went just play total dumb@ss. The same thing happned to me, with my diary. I had some pretty graphic boy stuff in there! This may, or may not work, but it's worth a try! Tell your sister to keep her mouth shut, and you will buy her something. I have a younger sister too! So annoying! :) I am almost 14, and she's almost 10.


Good Luck!!! ;) (p.s I think you hott)

Answer 5

You should probably leave it and lie. Say something like "oh that I was just marking off the days to the nintendo wii" or "Everytime I get home from school and get an A or good grade I mark the calendar" that would work. Oh and you should probably delete this question so they can't find out you asked it. O and your 13 and NOT a virgin. geez I'm twelve.....

Answer 6

Listen to "caren". Another mom agrees with her.
Your parents care about you and shouldnt be ignoring the issue! Take your punishment, get back to being a KID!
You are 13, think about it, you were playing hide n seek, and your'e having sex?????
The world is not over for you. You have your whole life ahead of you.
Caring about you,
Mom

Answer 7

Oh my, first of all dont have sex at such a young age! what if you got a girl pregnant or got a std? Condoms are NOT 100% effective! Believe me wait until your older. Secondly, do not take the calender if you do they will know your lying and that will only make things worse! Your in trouble anyways so dont make it worse. If you can summon up some courage maybe you should just admit it to them and talk to them about it or you can wait until they come to you. Try not to freak out but talking with them is your best bet. This is not the end of the world, but please stop having sex at such a young age.

GOOD LUCK

Answer 8

Dear Higher Power,
Please never let me have a son who has sex at 13 years old. I don't want my child to be ridden with STDs by the time hes 19 and be a pathetic excuse for a human.

AMEN

Answer 9

You are 13 and having sex? Why ? There is so much time for you to be doing that and what would you have done if you got the girl pregnant?

Answer 10

iam not a teen--Iam a mom. i have a son. i want you to know that there is nothing on the face of the earth that would make it so your life is over! not from MOM and DAD.
i know other moms who have boys in prison for the rest of their lives who have done terrible things to other people--mom still wirtes and visits and when she can she gives gifts--and she shows the pictures of her boy to everyone--you see the wire fence he is behind--you see his prison clothes--but mom loves her boy--
if your mom does nothing about what she found, she doesnt love you enough. what would i do, as a mom?
i would show it to your dad. and the 3 of us-(-no other family member) would discuss what it meant. and i would tell you that girls are more valuable then sex--they are worth more then their little bodies--they are special to their moms and their dads and to GOD. and so are YOU!
time to look at yourself as specail and these little girls too.
i would even suggest you talk to someone who has decided to start all over and become a virgin again...it could happen just that way...it could also happen you end up as a photo your mom shows around to her friends with a prison fence infront of you...for the rest of your life...
you are young yet--there is still time to ask God to help you Mature in to a guy with good character and to lead you to understand all iam writing here.
it aint
over till its over
and it aint over YET.

Answer 11

Who would want to have sex with a 13 year old little boy? That's just disgusting to even think about. This is what you get for trying to act like an adult, and I hope your parents beat the crap out of you! Seriously!