i found my friend dead and i need help !!?

Question

just last week i lost my closes friend. i really miss her. now im going down hill in school. we did everything together. never left each other's side. talked everyday for hours on end. now i dont have her. what is really sad is i found her dead in her own room. i walked in and walked to her room and when i opend the door there she was on the floor in blood. i looked all over the place for the wapon and found nothing. i told her parents and they said that she had her boyfriend over that night. do you think it was him? please i really dont know what to do.i lost my best friend. i found her dead. do you think i did the right thing to just walk in and up to her room and find her then tell hr parents ? please i really need your help. i would really apriatte it. thank you soooooooooo much for your help and thank you for taking your time to answer this.

Answer 1

You need help, the school should get you a councilor or something like that. Sounds messed up.

Answer 2

I am sooooo sorry to hear about that chicky. It doesn't sound to me like you have done anything wrong and don't even think you have! It is a very close loss to you and her family. Maybe you should think about talking to someone about the way you are feeling about the situation. It may seem like one of the hardest hurdles to overcome, but it will feel like the weight has been lifted off your shoulders afterwards. More than likely then you will be able to HOPEFULLY get back to doing your very best at school and not so many nights crying yourself to sleep.

I really do hope that i have been able to help!! Best of luck :)

Answer 3

I;m sorry for what happened to your friend and for your great loss.
Yes, you've done the right thing. Her parents certainly had to know. And if you any information, don;t hesitate to tell the cops AND her parents. I mean, you're her close friend, certainly she had told you many personal things/problems. Because any info you can give will help reveal the real incident and the truth. And will help find the culprit, too.

Answer 4

I am deeply sorry for you loses. I don't know what I would of done if that happened to me. I think you did the right thing by telling her parents, at least that's what I would have done. My best advice i could give to you right now is to get through it as best as you possibly can and know that she is in a good place :)

Answer 5

Dead with blood and you saw it? The Police will probably interview you for an account of what you have witnessed. Losing a friend is painful, you must be strong. Okay?

Answer 6

You need to talk about this to a school counselor. Please don't bottle this one up, it will eat at you for a very long time.
I'm guessing that her bf may have broken up with her. Maybe find the guy and see what they talked about. Don't mention to him that she's gone. See what info he gives up. If he clams up, seems nervous, and doesn't want talk at all, he may be hiding something.
You definitely did the right thing. Make sure you talk to someone. Drop me a line if you really need to.

Answer 7

wow ******* hell sounds horrible and yea u done the right thing by telling her parenst coz the have the right 2know straight away or asap,and as 4you u really need 2talk 2some1 about it coz it will mess ur head up bigtime believe me i had 2watch 1of my mates die and i couldnt do anything about just had 2watch i wont get in2 that now but if u do wat i done and dont speak 2some1 about it u will regret it and yea ur head will get so ****** up so plz plz plz plz plz do urself a favour and speak 2some1 about it ok,and as 4revenge dont even go there coz i done that and it wont bring ur mate back!i really hope u get through this,goodluck....

Answer 8

Honey...You need to talk to someone. In one week you have been pregnant, having surgery, a record deal, getting your stories published, going to fly to NY, getting married, had a dilemna with picking between two boyfriendsgetting a job, and you like another boy and want to know if he likes you. This is all in a week.
I think that you have an issue with attention. I think that at 15, you should be worrying about teen things, like make-up and shopping, or school. You have a long enough time later in life to grow up. Quit trying to grow up so fast. And if you really did find your friend, then you need to really see the school counselor. Where are yor parents while you are going through all of this?

Answer 9

ask her boyfriend if he did it if he trys to avod it or actes weird or not like him self ask his parents if he drinks or came home and was nerves or went straight up to his room and didn't
say anything for the rest of the night.Then { if u didn't all ready tell the police and have them investigate}

Answer 10

OMG i no wat ur going through i just lost one of my friends. make some posters of you and her together it should make you feel a little better. im 13 and i cried my eyes out. went to consuling and felt a little better. i made a thing on youtube look up blayne kelley richardson. you might find that a little helpful. he died a couple of weeks ago and all we no is that he was alone and he was shoot in the head. e-mail me for more [e-mail]

Answer 11

look im sorry u must be horribly sad and i am to never like to hear of deaths but you cant blame it on him just because he was over there but chances say he did. take him to the police station and have him take a polygraph and if he fails then throw his sorry *** in jail