its scary. going out into the real world. being at university. going through and under obstacles.
any tips ?
2006-12-07 11:39:17 · 11 answers · asked by Betty 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Take it as it comes. There's nothing you can do to change it so just accept it and look at the positives. It's new, exciting, a challenge etc... Plus the more experiences you have the more experienced in life you will be, I personally can't wait till I'm older because I'll have more life experience behind me.
2006-12-07 11:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by kittyandcj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just believe in yourself. Yes, you are facing a lot and it will be challenging but just know that you will be able to handle all of the challenges whatever the outcomes may be. If there is a lot going on and you are beginning to feel overwhelmed then just take one thing at a time. Assess your priorities and choose the most important or most urgent task first and focus on that. Put all the other stuff aside for the time being and come back to them later.
2006-12-07 11:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by Matisse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advice from a Dad:
1. Don't be afraid to try it yourself. And don't hesitate to ask for advice.
2. The sun will rise tomorrow. Seems stupid, but when life looks tough, it is often comforting to know that you will probably live to see the sun rise again.
3. If the people around you seem to be doing really stupid things, consider what that would make you if you joined them.
4. If you give something your honest best effort, you will probably succeed, and if you don't, try it again - perhaps its a problem which is only solved by persistence.
5. Make friends and welcome those who approach you for friendship. The more friends you have, the richer you are.
2006-12-07 11:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by craig_o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is scary. Now you know why adults are always saying, "Don't rush growing up: enjoy being a kd!"
Just try to enjoy this new stage in your life. Keep your wits about you. Don't rush into things. Think before you act. If you have a good head on your shoulders, w/common sense, then you should be fine
Try to work hard at school, make new friends. Experience new situations.
I envy you your youth!
2006-12-07 11:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be organized and have a general plan or a string of short term goals to work towards. Make friends and don't be afraid to ask people for help when you need it. Otherwise, try to keep your stress levels down by making time to do things you enjoy. Good Luck!!
2006-12-07 11:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by Queen Sofia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let the small things become too big.
handle problems one at a time - allowing them to build up will stress you out.
2006-12-07 11:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by Metaspy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray and allow God to give you guidance
2006-12-07 11:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the goofiest professor or clerk you can and realize, "He or she made, I sure can." Worked for me.
2006-12-07 11:54:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont eat ice cream for dinner
2006-12-07 11:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by twatwaffle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ja, it is going to be that way kid. Brace yourself and be ready.
2006-12-07 11:43:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋