I would just like to know how your experience. I will be leaving soon and I am scared but hopeful. I know i will blossom and I won't hav eany regrets. I have tried everything and I have given up. I want to live my life for me and my children.
2006-12-07 11:38:30 · 11 answers · asked by Veronique 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well girl, I have. I got separated to my husband 8 months ago, it was hard as hell and sometimes I still think about it and hurt. I realized if I stayed I was going to get used to be treated bad and rejected. Do whats best for you and only YOU!!!!! I know that you will be fine, bcause you sayed you will. If you believe in yourself, you can do it. I did and know am ok, I make more money than bfore, I got my own car and apt. I am fine and I continue to be ok. I will try dating later on, when I feel totally healed. Girl do whats best 4 YOU!!! and whatever it is do it without looking back, do not retract at all!!!
2006-12-07 11:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by lilis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in an abusive relationship for about a year. I left when he beat me, gave me a concusion and a contusion while I was pregnant with his child. I left town, he found me where I went so I left again. I had the child, and gave it up for adoption, and have lived in the same place for 6 years now. He did find me but I have not seen him and I made it very clear when he found me that we were done forever.
I have a great job, and am so much happier now. Leaving was very hard, and very scary but the best thing I could have ever done for myself.
Sometimes packing up removing urself from it all, moving away, starting over is the best thing you can do.
Good luck, I wish u the best! Be strong keep the faith, u can do anything you put your mind to!
2006-12-07 19:47:40 · answer #2 · answered by sasifrass13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH sweetie you are doing the best thing by leaving that coward.... My sister my beautiful baby sister was almost killed by her baby's dad.. She now has trouble remembering and has scars.... not to mention the boys who seen it. Be strong I hope you have help if not there is help out there.... she left in the middle of the night had to push the car down the hill because it wouldn't start.. She then got pulled over on the way to the airport but I would like to tell you she is stronger than ever and the kids are doing great without that pig....
2006-12-07 19:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by tabithascharm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom was. The funny things about families are. the more the kids are around it the more they are going to be a part of it. My brother is abusive, and I have been in several abusive relationships. My mom and I are finally in great ones, and my brother realized a thing or two when his wife said she was going to leave with their daughter. Get out and NEVER look back!!
2006-12-07 19:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by Jodanna B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a woman that left an abusive marriage. Later she met a man and married him and he treats her like she's the gem of his life. She now wonders what took her so long to leave her 1st marriage.
2006-12-07 19:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you honey! I wish you and your kids the best . I survived an abusive relationship and am just now getting back on my feet now .Look foward and not back !Make everyday count ! take him to court ASAP for support .Harden your heart and walk away !
2006-12-07 19:42:51 · answer #6 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lived with a man who abused me physically for fourteen months. Luckily, we didn't have children. I left him and never looked back, but I found it very difficult to trust other men again.
Good luck to you.
2006-12-07 19:42:24 · answer #7 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister's first husband beat the crap out of her. Me and my two brothers introduced him to a New York tap dance. They separated the next day and the next guy has been really good for her.
2006-12-07 19:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have and it was very difficult and scary but I made it. Now, I'm in one that isn't so great. I will have to leave this one too! Get counseling and get out!
2006-12-07 19:41:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm still stuck in an abusive relationship. though not that bad so long as i do not provoke when my partner's in a foul mood. i'v been wondering how to get out too....
2006-12-07 19:42:11 · answer #10 · answered by yoyo l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋