For a 16 year old christian girl
to want to think about drinking, smoking, partying, having sex, etc.....
i mean i wouldnt do that stuff at all but i've been thinking about it alot lately.....
and i know if people asked me to do it, espcially a guy i like i would do it..... probbably.
i dont wanna be rebellious or anything....
i dont wanna do anything that i might regret...
help?
what do u think??
advice??
2006-12-07 11:35:52 · 19 answers · asked by bosstastic<3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if you were a real christian like me.i wouldnt be thinking about that in the first place.or it might be ur hormonnes.now dont getit wrong but thats what heve learned in science class.be carefull.in the bible it says that only doit whenever you are married.! i wouldnt be that stupid to just doit with someone i dont love or someone im not married to.
2006-12-07 13:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by neina khan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on person to person...
somethings are correct for some while others may comment about it as wrong.
Take drinking...for some it is just fun...some like it..some are adicted... and some people abhor it....
So there is no right..or wrong....
Just try to be happy...and make others happy as well ( try hurting others to the minimum extent possible )
Last but not the least...don't become slave to your habits..its ok to smoke drink and have sex but never ever become addicted....that is where such habits are completely wrong without any doubt...
ask yourself can you live without a smoke for a day or without a drink for a week.
The main question is whether you are controlling the habit of drinking or smoking or you are being controlled by your habits of smoking and drinking? only you can answer it.
2006-12-07 23:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by Pooja Bedi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a Christian does not mean that you wont be tempted by
human desires. But please don't give in to them. Any guy is more willing to get a girl in bed if it is easy. Think long and hard before
doing something that you will regret. When you are ready for sex
let it happen with a person who truly loves you and will take responsibility for you.
2006-12-07 19:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by bernice l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are thinking is natural. You are curious about things in the world around you. However, some things are not safe for a person your age. Even for adults these types of activities are not good. Look at people who engage in these types of lifestyles; they are usually not the most admirable/happy people. I think you are fine the way you are. Being curious is okay, but it is not good to try everything just because you see other people doing it.
2006-12-07 19:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by HuniBuniBee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i guess it is normal, but you should never do anything like that. Remeber that you are christian, and you should make sure that you don't do anything that your family or the church would look down on. Also all of those things are extremely stupid and only a really stupid person would do them. Remember that you could get seriously hurt ect. if you participate in those activities. So in short. No I don't think that you should ever do anything of those things unless you are an adult or extremely responsible.
2006-12-07 19:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by drv 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a normal teenage girl who is fantasizing.Thinking about things is different than actually doing them!
Just keep in mind your own values and ideals and try not to put yourself in situations which tempt you to break those values, or make you feel uncomfortable.
There is nothing wrong with the way you feel. Don't let anybody put you down, make you uncertain, or pressure you into anything you don't want to do.
2006-12-07 19:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its Totaly normal for you to think about it. i am 16 and i do all the time. its just about the choises you make. think about what could happen if you did things like that. sex might lead to baby, drinking could lead to injailment, pregnacy and more. Drugs are just a NO try them once but dont try them again. There is nothing good about them. trust me. You NEED to know more about it before you do anything. BE SAFE
2006-12-07 20:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by Tess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is right time for every thing this is very normal we all go thru these phases but at 16 u might b misleaded wait for 2or3yrs this is a part of ur life an smethin that wil stay wit u forever giv it time
2006-12-10 02:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going with the herd doesnt mean its normal......dont be just another brick in the wall...I know people here would tell you its normal everyone is doing it blah blah blah...but think about it how its going to affect your future??? Become a leader not a follower!!
2006-12-07 20:20:03 · answer #9 · answered by billu_bhai 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
drinking smoking and sex with out married is bad for people of all ages male or female alike even worst for young people ,i hope u got my point,its not Ur's friend who calls u for evil things ,
2006-12-08 08:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by saali100000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋