Am so desprerate. I am in love with my husband still. Its been 8 months separated from him. I have tried to move on, but I cant. I have tried to reach him. He has not picked up my calls, or anwering my e-mails. I know he had read them bcause of my friends, but maybe his pride is holding him back. I dont know what to do if he had moved on. I want him but what if he dont want me back. This is killing me, I am in depression
2006-12-07 11:32:31 · 15 answers · asked by lilis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sucks...i am sorry
2006-12-07 11:34:31 · answer #1 · answered by Tess c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, it sounds like you have tried and you aren't receiving anything back..any response or anything..you need to move on for your sanity. If that were me, I would message him one more time and tell him straight up " i still love you, miss you and want to get back together but you arent responding so this is the last time I'm trying but you know where and how to reach me". He may just need time to himself. Maybe what he needs is time and distance away from you (sorry but it might be true) and maybe the best thing is to do this and then let him figure things out on his own. By giving him one last message, it creates closure for you and you can move on knowing you did all you could.
2006-12-07 11:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by Louisa C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to know that this is killing you. He has moved on and now it's time for you to move on also. Go talk to a counselor. It' s always painful when a marriage is over. I will be divorcing soon and I know that this is then best thing for everyone involved. There's a reason for everything. I this man cared about you he would answer your calls. Don't waste another minute.
2006-12-07 11:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by Veronique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he has moved on, go the doctor get help for your depression, lots of people dont like to be around a person who is depressed, this is sad cos its the time u need people more, but its humane nature, once your outlook on life has changed u will find your life will too. best of luck.
2006-12-07 11:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to change the life you planned, in order to find the life that was meant to be. It's time to find that new life. Try to find something that you enjoy doing - either a volunteer job or a part-time job (something fun). Staying busy and feeling productive will help you tremendously and you never know what new friendships (and love) you will find.
2006-12-07 11:36:45 · answer #5 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make an effort to forget him. It's hard, but you must! Go to therapy, work on it very hard. It's possible if you set your mind on the goal. You have to want it. Stop the self-pity, and move on - this is the only way. Good luck.
2006-12-07 11:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok u should probably tell him how u feel but u should probably first find where he is at and then say i dont know what happened but i still luv u and i cant let u go but if he doesnt work for it then u need to look for a more better person then him that will actually accept u
2006-12-07 11:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by kea e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im so sorry 2hear that but u cant make some1 love u again and u just have 2face the fact that its over wich can hurt alot but u need 2be strong and just have2 move u know,SMILE ul be ok in time,i hope so anyway and goodluck.bye bye....
2006-12-07 11:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by smokey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did he leave? It may have nothing to do with you, in that case, you need to move on. He doesn't deserve you. I hope you can find the strength and hopefully find someone else who will love AND respect you.
2006-12-07 11:39:09 · answer #9 · answered by Pandora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes a lot of time to get over one's love when u truly loves... see a doc, get some anti-depression pills.
2006-12-07 11:37:28 · answer #10 · answered by yoyo l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry girlie. Im kinda goin through the same situation. did u leave him?
2006-12-07 11:39:53 · answer #11 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋