Dear dear dear?
hello
i have this friend. who is not skinny. overweight. i went to shopping with her she always picks out these slutty clothes and says if she were thinner she would wear it. Which i think it ridiculous. she will be oh my gosh if i had your shape i would so where this... it's so annoying. i'm afraid if she looses weight she will become a whole nother person, as selfish as this sounds. stuff like this happens all the time. what should i do? i want her to loose weight but i don't want to CHANGE into a slutty girl
2006-12-07 11:30:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her the clothes aren't your style. That you wouldn't be caught dead in them. Maybe you can help redirect her sense of fashion.
2006-12-07 11:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there comes a point in a woman's life that we wish we could be thin enough to wear whatever we wanted. I don't think she means those items in particular, but wishes she had more choices due to being overweight. I just lost 20 pounds myself, but before that, I was saying the exact same things and that is why. I just really wanted to be thin enough that I could wear them even if I really wasn't going to.
2006-12-07 19:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by KC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she means is She can't wear them now but if she could wear them she would be skinny
2006-12-07 19:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell her that u dont like how she makes her decisions. u should tell her how u feel. i have friends like this and it does get annoying...but ive told that person how i felt and they accepted what i told them. but dont be too mean about it. just enough to where she knows u dont like it
2006-12-07 19:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by HERE fOR tHE PARtY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that she is beautiful as she is
2006-12-07 19:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by i love cookies!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋