before i got together w/ my bf, i used to like this guy. he flirts a lot. and ...i dont know. he's immature but i find myself attracted to him. he pretends not to like me, and tries to make fun of me, but by now i know that he does it to get my reaction
so what do i do?
i do care about my bf but our relationship is kinda....boring??
no not boring...just....i dont know
haha what do i do?
2006-12-07 11:26:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I HATE YOU
2006-12-07 11:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by snowfreeze3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were in this situation I would number 1
1:see who I like more
2: see whos more trust worthy who i am more closer with and can communicate with
3: I would look at the disadvantages and advantages of each person
4:I would try and fix or change the relationship I had to make it better
5: and if that didnt work I would go with the other guy
2006-12-07 11:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to find something that intrest you both [you & ur b/f]. that might spark up the relationship. and if that doesnt work may you should think about what is really right for the both of you. and as for the other guy i think that he is just a big flirt, cause he hasn't made a move to ask you on a date or anything like that!
2006-12-07 11:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have this conversation with heapsa people.
Lotsa people say..... its only flirting!! rah rah rah.
But i think if you have a boyfriend... you shouldn't want to flirt with anyone.. he should be enough for you! And if your flirting with other guys it might be considered "teasing"
There's so many different opinions on this so called "harmless flirting" but personally i think your bf should be enough, if you feel that you need to flirt than leave the relationship.
Lots of ppl disagree with me tho so its up to what u feel right doing.
2006-12-07 11:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's playing with you, it's flirting, don't try to read more into it. That will take the fun out of it. How does it feel when your BF does it with other girls?
2006-12-07 11:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by 123..WAIT! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is NOT AN INSULT. You are not ready for a relationship. You are not mature enough yet. I am sorry to use this word but it is not an insult, I think you are probably a very awesome and valuable person with lots of great qualities. You should have fun and be yourself and date and flirt with whoever you want.
2006-12-07 11:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm doing the same thing. i like the rush. the girl i flirt with has a bf, but she doesn't mind, actually she craves the attention.she never told me she has a bf, i just know.but its a lot of fun.
2006-12-07 11:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should play things day by day and i mean if your relationship is not going anywhere whats the point in the relationship and if it does not work out with your boyfriend give the other guy a chance it couldent hurt
2006-12-07 11:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this other guy makes you happy and you really like him and your b.f doesn't then tell him its over and go with the other guy.if your b.f likes you more than the other guy he will try to get you back.
2006-12-07 11:39:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your flirtin with someone else when you have a boyfreind, then well i guess the choice is allready made, leave him for the guy you like to flirt with
2006-12-07 11:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by kydd 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you arent into your guy let him know, the longer ya wait the more it will hurt his pride and self esteem.
2006-12-07 11:30:02 · answer #11 · answered by Pretty Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋