Is there even ONE guy out there who doesn't watch porn? If you don't, why don't you? Because my boyfriend still does, even though we've been together for 2 years. I'm trying to be open minded about it, and we make our own videos and photos to replace porn, but every once in a while he still does. Just wondering if it is even POSSIBLE for a guy to Not watch porn.
2006-12-07 11:21:55 · 32 answers · asked by Stark 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They are home movies. They are not getting on the internet..
2006-12-07 11:29:31 · update #1
I've tried watching it with him. I personally just do not enjoy it, so it doesn't work.
2006-12-07 11:39:23 · update #2
i dont watch porn. i just dont because if im with a girl i would feel guilty even if im not with her. its like cheating on her by looking at other women and in this case its naked women.
2006-12-07 12:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by ralph h 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Men who don't watch porn are very few and far between but they do exist I have one of them.Men watch porn because they don't take the time to research the FACTS,for some reason they think they can learn from watching it or they get pleasure from it ,all porn is is fantasy.Women take the time to sit down and research sex to get info,men just put in a DVD, and what they don't realize is that most women are not porn stars and most of the things porn stars do are not satisfying more like PAINFUL to us normal women.So take the time to sit down w/your boyfriend and express your true feelings on the subject and see what he says.
2006-12-07 11:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by kat daddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men tend to be visual creatures. They prefer to look, whether it's porn or Sports Illustrated (soft porn), or Playboy or whatever. Mostly it's a natural thing for human males to be "titillated" in visual ways. It's not always perfect bodies, as every continent has it's own standards, but there is usually something visual. I think your boyfriend is nearing the line between interest and obsession, and you may need to watch his behavior and decide if you want to stay with this individual. One question, are you sure he isn't sharing your video tapes with anyone else? How will you feel if you find out that you are online au natural? Men have asked the same kind of question regarding women and their "romance" novels. Some consider them a version of pornography. Good Luck
2006-12-07 11:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by Ice 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Strange thing is, although I watch is because how hilarious some of it is, my boyfriend doesn't watch it at all. I can believe him because when we were first together he seemed a little in awe about a female's body. He said the reason he doesn't watch it is because the nonattached appearance of being with a woman is so degrading and doesn't capture what true intimacy is like. He doesn't want to base what he should do off of what he's seen on a porno. So yes, it's completely possible.
2006-12-07 11:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Do you know the difference between good porn and bad porn ? If he is watching legal porn then there is nothing wrong with it at all. The only problem is with some women's insecurities . Unless he disrespects you or is looking after his own pleasures and you are not getting yours I really don't see what the problem is..
2006-12-07 11:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Note that in the answers to your question: Anyone using the word "all" is basically automatically wrong (and that even applies if the person talking actually *is* a guy!)
Not anywhere close to *all* men watch porn. Simply put, porn is wrong.
2006-12-07 11:34:46 · answer #6 · answered by barjesse37 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Guys function differently than we women do. They are very visual with regard to their stimulation. No, not all men watch but many, many do.
Personally, I have way better stuff in my own head than anything some movie could show!
One Warning -- and I speak from experience. DO NOT PUT YOURSELF ON FILM UNLESS YOU WANT IT TO GET AROUND! There is always the possibility it could end up on the internet, in a magazine, anywhere - and unless you're comfortable with that happening - stop.
2006-12-07 11:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by kc 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm a bloke and no I don't watch porn it does nothing for me and never has. I get called odd and weird for being that way but then I do not like football and don't bother watching that either.
2006-12-07 11:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
He very well may be addicted to porn (not joking). My exhusband was and it drove me nuts. I as well tried to be open minde, but it hurts your feelings. My husband now doesn't watch them and has no desire to, so yes there are some guys out there like that :)
2006-12-07 11:25:56 · answer #9 · answered by Pretty Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand why guys watch porn cause I'm a girl and I like watching it too!
2006-12-07 11:37:11 · answer #10 · answered by applecheeks 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋