Has anyone ever gotten back with their ex-husband after being divorced? If so did it work out O.K.? Thanks for any input.
2006-12-07 11:09:55 · 14 answers · asked by montanaone2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
remember he is an ex for a reason
2006-12-07 11:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by gabby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. My aunt got divorced after about 7-8 years of marriage and 1 kid. They remarried a year later, and had another child. They've been married for over 20 years since. It wasn't always paradise for them, but it can be done. They have 2 healthy, well-adjusted children, and a good loving relationship now.
You really have to think about the underlying relationship, and why the divorce happened in the first place.
2006-12-07 11:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by Humberto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we didn't actually divorce, although we lived on are own for a long time. He slept with another woman when we were separated too.. Which was so hard to deal with.. I still think about it.. I thought to my self you want me back now, after I'm starting to live again... We went to counseling and though it sounds silly I had him sign a contract which was the counselors idea.. Saying I promise to give 110% and help do my part. And never hurt me like that again... If he fails to follow the contract.. He has to pay for the divorce..
2006-12-07 11:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by tabithascharm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a tuff question I got back with my ex wife it did not work that does not mean it can,t work there are a lot of factors involved first how old are you all how long have you been apart why did you divorce in the first place did you all resolve the issues you had are there children do you both want it again I would tell you this what ever happen in the past let it be in the past good luck
2006-12-07 11:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say it doesnt matter if wether others have done this or not because every relationship is different.I would say you need to think about why you two split up in the first place and talk about it alot.You each need to figure out what you learned from this seperation and also discuss that.I think its fine to get back with an Xhusband as long as you give yourself enough time to see if he is going to go back to the old habits that drove you away in the first place.It is always sweet in the begining even if it is the second begining.
2006-12-07 11:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody wants to get back at people who hurt them. It seems to be human nature.
Before you get back at him, just think about how much worse off he is without you. That right there is a big payback.
Remember there are jails for such acts and the karma behind paybacks can be awful. Just be happy you are done with him and move on and be happy. Sometimes - often - that is the best payback you can do!
Yes, I did - and my ex is miserable now that I am happy. He and my new husbands ex constantly tried to cause trouble - so bad we had to move 2,000 miles away. Ten years later we are still running into "issues" from our ex's, but we each get a huge kick outta the fact they haven't moved on and we have and are happy!
Go for it girly! Get happy and make him miserable!
2006-12-07 11:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by kc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight to get what back? Extra lies and more dishonest? No, thanks. Love is a determination and the much less you recognize and love yourself, the more you think you like him. Its a significant lie to your part. Now, who's the larger liar here? Do you get my factor? Sorry about answering with questions, but you must have a tremendous alarm clock with a large hammer to wake you up and regain your dignity. Who cares what he's doing now, he is a free man who decided to cheat on you since he didn't love you and still you are attendant to his every move. One of the most stuff that will have to be going on for your lifestyles is get one to start with, live and let are living. Good success
2016-08-10 00:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I for one didn't but my best friend did and the same day their divorce was final. He realized that he made a mistake and wouldn't you believe it he did a 360 with his whole life and that my friend is a true story. My best friend is a better person to herself and others now because of it.
2006-12-07 11:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by wyattj23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This didn't happen to me, but years ago, my husband got back with his ex-wife, she got pregnant, they got re-married and then divorced. He knew it wouldn't last, but he felt he had to marry her for the child's sake. That child is now 17, depressed, under a psychiatrist's care, and taking medication. Not a good move, if you ask me!
2006-12-07 11:14:20 · answer #9 · answered by Cathy M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never even thought of it. If I went back the old problems would just come back up and it would all go wrong again.
2006-12-07 11:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A very dear friend of mine did with her's. They have been happliy re-married for over 25 years!
2006-12-07 11:17:08 · answer #11 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋