what should i do im really in sape have a perfect body basically. im on the basketball team. i bench 210. i dont know what i should do should i just stop working out? i can send photos if needed
2006-12-07 11:07:18 · 20 answers · asked by macjew925 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Maybe it's not your "ripped" body they don't like. Maybe it's you.
2006-12-07 11:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by amandafofanda66 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Then you would be unhappy with yourself. Additionally, you would not go from being a muscle puppy to being normal -- or even quasi normal -- you would go all to fat -- that always happens or almost always happens with an absolute stop to working out. Being fat is far worse than being a muscle puppy.
I suggest that you keep looking, there are girls who like muscle puppies - just as there are gay bois who do -- there just aren't a lot of them. It's about 7% according to most surveys. And I must admit, I agree. I like a guy who is thin, and a six pack is nice enough -- though I don't care one way or another --- but once you get the type of muscles needed to bench 210 -- I am no longer interested, other than to be friends.
I however am a gay man. Muscle puppies actually have a few points more popularity in the gay community than they do among women, according to those same surveys.
Kind thoughts,
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
2006-12-07 11:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont like guys like that either. They seam arrogant and stuck up and think they are all that. And they are usually bad in the sack because they think they can slack off because they have a great body.
The best lovers I have ever had are the "average joe's". even ones with afew extra punds. they work harder at trying to please a woman because they can "fall back" onthier body.
It's an attitude issue. Most guys that are "ripped"ahve bad attitudes. Try being a gental and caring nice guys. Contrary to waht some people say, that is waht a girl really looks for in a serious relationship.
2006-12-08 06:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are the other good-looking guys able to find dates? If so, perhaps it is not your perfect physique that the ladies are turned-off by.
The good news is, there may still be something you can do about it. The bad news is, it'll take more than squats to fix.
2006-12-07 11:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
GIRLS are probably intimidated by your sexy body, don't change a thing if you like the way you look then thats all that counts, you don't have to meet or date anyone at school do you. there is more fish in the sea outside of school. Good Luck!!
2006-12-07 11:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change yourself for a girl. Keep working out and looking good and that is how you get older women. :) No one likes a fat slob. Plus why change yourself for someone, they the don't like the real you! Be proud of your body... I am a pretty cut girl and I show it all the time.
2006-12-07 11:10:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummmm....they're messin' with ya babe. every girl LOVES a guy who's in shape. don't beg. if you got the bod, and you have the right attitude, then you can have any woman you really want. smile to yourself and know that these women that are saying you're too "buff" for them are really dreaming about a guy with a great bod and an attractive face and above all else, a great attitude toward people in general. don't be a snob, but don't beg any of them either. the one who has the guts to approach you or respond to your approach is the one who deserves your time and attention. good luck to you and blessed be!!
2006-12-07 11:11:20 · answer #7 · answered by vrandolph62 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Um, your probably a douche, so it doesn't matter how ripped or good looking you are. You may get some action from some skanks, but they're in the same boat as you pretty much.
2006-12-07 11:21:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should lay off the weights and try working out your brain.
If you think a category titled Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered is the best place to post your vain little question you have way bigger problems to deal with.
2006-12-07 13:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't stop working out if it is something you enjoy. Send me those photos and I'll tell you if you are as hot as you think you are.
2006-12-07 11:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Aryan Angel ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's time to take a look at your mind and not your muscles. That just might be the source of your dating troubles.
2006-12-07 16:26:52 · answer #11 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋