I have just lost my uncle aged 64 my aunty is ill with bone cancer and my other uncle has althseimers and all of a sudden i feel so scared of the future is this normal or am I strange i feel so sad!!! but im not depressed xx
2006-12-07 10:57:29 · 15 answers · asked by Country Girl 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
I think that it is probably due to so many of your family being ill and one dying that makes you question your own mortality and that of your remaining family.
It is not strange, it is perfectly normal, but who are you feeling sad for, them or yourself. I am sure that they would not want you to feel sorry or sad for them and they would want you to lead a happy life.
Over 2/3 years, I lost an uncle at 43 to heart problems, my aunt at 47 due to a hardening of the arteries in the brain, my sister in law to cancer at 43.
It makes me sad, and I miss them, but I feel sad for myself. I am not glad they have gone, but I am glad that they are not suffering the agonies that plagued their last time with us.
Now I tell my family that I love them everyday and live life.
A few years ago I was at so many funerals, [family and close family friends] that even the vicar used to say "hello again".
Be happy!
2006-12-07 11:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by cross_sox 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a real problem and fear of loosing my mother now because my grandmother passed away in June and they told her that she had a least two years left. And when I was 10 years old I lost my best friend then my great grandma then my aunt then a week later my uncle then my grandfather died of cancer then about a month later my uncle was murdered so death is just something that comes along with life you just have to think that they are in a better place and they arent in pain anymore and here recently like i said my grandmother died and the day after thanksgiving my nephew died he was only six months old so I know how it feels to loose someone in my family.
2006-12-07 11:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens a lot in life. Mainly in the middle of the night when you are having a bad dream and wake up in a sweat and all you can think about is losing the ones you love, especially the kids. I think it's the realisation of how easy the people you love could be snatched away from you. As you have had a lot of close family dying it has brought it home to you even more about how precious your family is to you.
2006-12-07 11:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by patsy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lost my mom 5 years ago from a sudden heart attack. I was 22 years old. She was the first person who was really close to me that had died. Her death made me realize how fragile life is. I think its pretty normal to be scared. We all are sometimes. I went through a phase after my mom died where I was scared to go to sleep because I was worried I wouldn't wake up. It gets easier as time goes by honey... my theory: live life to the fullest each day and say what you need to say now don't save it for later. Take Care honey.
2006-12-07 11:10:44 · answer #4 · answered by Kristin Pregnant with #4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 05:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by farraj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be afraid of people in my family dying it was a real problem until I was about 13.now every once in awhile I do think to myself "life seems like its going by so fast" and when I do it reminds that death is a part life and so I just try enjoy life while its here.
2006-12-07 11:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by thomas s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, those people let themselves get that way diet wise. Like a fat person eats junk food and gets diabetes. Someone goes into the sun and bakes and gets skin cancer. Teach your children to take care of themselves. The future is bright. People are now living to 78 as in average now.
2006-12-07 11:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
After starting a family i worry sick about all my loved ones........i even saw my doctor about it. But you have to keep in mind that every one dies and you have to make the most of now and live each day as your last. Try not to worry about things that havent happened yet. XXX
2006-12-07 14:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally think family is over rated.Not seen or spoken to any of my brothers or sisters for almost 30 years.
2006-12-07 11:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by Butt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My greatest fear is outliving my children, might as well start digging my grave right next to theirs cause I wouldn't survive!
2006-12-07 14:12:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋