many people say its wrong or stupid or evil if people choose to live there lifestyle in BDSM isnt it there choice if they decide to live that way why discriminate against it?
can someone tell me why ppl who practice BDSM are always told that they are sick or need therepy if they do so. especailly for masochist?
2006-12-07 10:48:27 · 6 answers · asked by Ikemefuna s 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
It is their choice. And that' s cool. But it is a whack one, in my opinion.
Sex shouldn't be something where your like,
"Hold on honey, I'm gonna go get the drill with the dildo with spikes on it. When I come back, I'll crush your balls with 7 inch stillettos and and whip you till you almost piss yourself in pain "
Its just weird. It is a fetish that has come around in the 20th century since we've had vinyl, and rubber, and drills etc. Which means its NOT natural, or normal.
And liking that weird lifestyle, all relates back to having a ****** up childhood of physical, sexual, and mental abuse.
As adults, we are supposed to overcome what happened to us in our childhood, not embrace the f*cked-upness of it.
2006-12-07 10:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by the nothing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe there is anything wrong with bdsm or any other sexual choice, as long as both people involved are competent adults and both agree to participate. I do, however, believe that there is a need for therapy, a psychological problem, that makes someone feel that they should be hurt, or hurt someone else in order to be sexually stimulated. There should not be laws against it, people who do it should not be discriminated against as long as they do it in private; but I don't believe that it reflects a healthy psychological outlook regarding your own self image or how you interact with other people.
2006-12-07 10:56:50 · answer #2 · answered by irongrama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People don't know how to stay out of others business. I personally don’t like the whole BDSM thing (kind of scary actually.) However it’s not me who’s doing it, thus why should I care about others? As long as it’s consensual I wouldn’t say anything about it. I don't know what a Masochist is??
2006-12-07 10:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pain and fear are tools used by the body to prevent harm from being done to it.
I fully support the decisions people make to live their lives anyway they so choose as long as no physical harm is done to another and no physical, emotional or psychological harm is done to a child. However wanting or enjoying pain is a sign that something is messed up with the wiring in your brain because it bypasses the tools your body has to preserve itself.
2006-12-07 10:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by Sara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because this people seems to be sick, but discriminate is not the right choice. We are all equals
2006-12-07 11:00:07 · answer #5 · answered by Somerset 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People often tend to be afraid of, hate, discriminate against, or judge harshly those things/people they don't understand or that are different from what they feel to be the 'norm'.
2006-12-07 10:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by EnigmaGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋