I dream of him often...it's been like19 months since he's been gone. It's his birthday tomorrow and he would've been 25. I dream a lot that we fight against each other...My sister also dreams that she gets in a fight with him too. This happens a lot...What is the reason?
2006-12-07 10:48:16 · 9 answers · asked by angelic1302 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Did it just start (maybe you had his birthday in the back of your mind)?
I think this suggest you need to get over to the Psychic areas of this site to ask this question. This doesn't sound like an " Oh, what a Coeinsidence my sister had a dream about my brother the same month as me" thing for Psychology to help you with. This sounds like there is a message and point to this,.. even if it conflicts with your faith or non-faith.
And it is a desperate warning the more people that get it.
*waits for her internet to reconnect while a jerk yells and curses over her shoulder and wonders why she is getting cranky*
2006-12-07 11:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by sailortinkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my brother when he 18 that was 12 years ago now, I still dream about him.
I think the reason you are dreaming of fighting him is because you are angry that he died. Deep down you may be mad at him for leaving you. This is normal and is part of the grieving progress.
It will take a long time to get over his death, don't try and rush it, if it bothers you a lot seek counselling.
good luck and cheers
2006-12-07 11:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by krissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason you and your sister dream of your late brother is because you are working through a huge storm in your mind that is the death of your brother.
you are dreaming of things that might have been or are similar to the way the were.
i dreamed many time that i was taking my father a coffee in his study . i did that from time to time for him. it was a pleasent thing to do . for a time after his death he was not dead in my mind that did not come until much later. that came bit by bit until now many years later even in a dream i know that my father is dead.
fighting with your brother is just a way that your mind and your sisters mind is keeping the grief in check . even if you didnt fight with him or even if you did fight with him while he was alive you are still going to go through a time in which your angry with him and this may come in the form of a fight in the dream. your not
so much angry with him as you are angry that he is gone.
dont worry at all about the dreams no matter what they seem to be about as long as you need to you will dream of him often and as long as you need to and even later when you wish he was alive i mean 20 years from now you will still dream of him
if you accept that death no matter what the cause is something that takes years no it takes a life time to understand really death is only understood when we are dead or maybe so near to our actual death that we are given what we need to understand .
i know how sad death can be and i know that some year you will forget that his birthday has come and gone and then you will be angry and upset about it saying how could i forget what is the matter with me that is awfull . no its not awfull its just one more point in the process that is death .
i am a christain so i belive in prayer i found that helped me
i will pray that you and your sister and your brother will all be ok yes your brother too . i hope you will find some comfort from what i have written here.
2006-12-07 11:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 21:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that when someone dies you always feel a sense of anger towards them at first. Maybe it is just you letting your anger and frustrations out. I also think that when loved ones have left us, they enter into our dreams as a way of saying that they love us and that they are okay.
2006-12-07 16:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is trying to contact you. Dont ever think that he cant, cuz if he needs to he will. Have you prayed about this dream?
2006-12-07 12:13:56 · answer #6 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when we miss somebody we dream about, Or if we like some. Its just how lifes made:)
2006-12-07 10:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The basic meaning is change.
2006-12-07 10:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by Patches6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this might be helpful
http://spirita.blogspot.com/
2006-12-08 12:44:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋