what should i do about peer presser to have sex with an older male?

Answer 1

the best advice i can give u is stick to your grounds when you say no,. dnt let him change your mind in any way. think of what kind of things might happen. dont let me down girl, i think u can stick your grounds...even if it means staying away from this guy until u know what u want.

Answer 2

Well, with peer pressure, I'm assuming your friends are pressuring you. Maybe the guy is too.

I would definitely say "no" a lot. Maybe tell them you're not ready, or don't want to, or that he's not the one you want to be with for your first time.

Or you could get friends who are truly your friends and aren't trying to change who you are because you're different from them.

Say no. Save yourself for someone who deserves that part of you. I wish I had.

Answer 3

Don't do it wait until YOU ARE READY, not what someone else wants read these lyrics...

Intro:]
Hey yo you,
You see most cats would take adavantage of you right now
But I aint gon do that, you heard
Imma give you the game, right
Imma give it to you because
I dont want somebody to give my little girl the game
So she could find her s.e.x.

[Verse 1:]
Life's a trip
Heard you just turn 17 and finally got some hips
Hustlers on the block go crazy when you lick your lips
But they just want relations, they dont want relationships
(Welcome to the real world)
It aint the same
Fellas old enough to be your daddy know your name
Everybody's talkin bout how much that girl dun changed
Cant quite put your finger on it but you feel it's strange
Like's it's fire in your vains

[Chorus:]
Girl it's just your s.e.x.
Momma's secret
And daddy gon go crazy when he finds out that his baby's having
S.e.x., take a deep breath
And think before you let it go

[Verse 2:]
The block is packed
Baby got an additude and proud to holla back
Momma's giving advice but she aint tryna hear that
Not because its wrong, just her delivery is wack
(Shay, get your butt in this house, if I see you with another boy, I swear..)
Life is rough
You say that your not ready for sex but you're in love
He says if you really loved him, you would give it up
Momma says thats just a line guys use to get you're stuff
Which one will you trust?

[Chorus:]
Girl it's just your s.e.x.
Momma's secret
And daddy gon go crazy when he finds out that his baby's having
S.e.x., take a deep breath
And think before you let it go

[Verse 3:]
Hey yo Lyfe,
She might take it better coming from a woman (get 'em girl)
See, he'll tell you all kind of things to get in your pants, yeah
Baby, it's a fact that once it's gone, you'll never get it back (never get it back)
Hold on to your innocence
Use your common sense (your worth waiting for)
Be strong
Honey, dont give in, blessings come with patience
Till we meet again, im praying for you

[Chorus:]
Girl it's just your s.e.x.
Momma's secret
And daddy gon go crazy when he finds out that his baby's having
S.e.x., take a deep breath
And think before you let it go

[Repeat Chorus]
[Outro]

Answer 4

DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!! if you do it just cuz it looks cool or e/o else says you should but you don't really want to, you will regret it for a long time!!!! stand your ground if you truly believe that it's wrong. it may take a while but in the long run they'll respect you more because you respected yourself.
ps: if the pressure gets really bad-like so bad that it affects your schoolwork or health-tell an adult that you trust and who is in a position to help you.
good luck-and remember, you gotta respect yourself, cuz you have to live with yourself for the rest of your life.

Answer 5

go with youheart! forget about those peers that are pressuring you becuase long after they are gone you'll have to deal with the regret of giving in ... your not a chicken because you don't want to have sex with an older guy, your smart!

Answer 6

stay true to yourself. If he was worth giving it up to, he would not be pressuring you. If he is using his age as a factor, then tell him to find an older girl. you deserve more respect than that.

Answer 7

That's easy...your body, your rules. Come on, you have heard the old "if everybody was jumping off the bridge"...yada yada...Let your peers do what they want, you do what YOU feel is right for you.

Answer 8

DONT give into that pressure b/c more than likely ull feel soo bad after u do it!! and there is always the risk of std's and gettin pregnant!!!
SO STAY STRONG!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

Say no! Do not give in until you are ready or you will regret it. If he really likes you then he will wait and if he leaves then you deserve better anyway.

Answer 10

unles you really love him, dont go for it!
you might just end up pregnate or get some type of infection from a teenage love affair.
if you are a virgin like me, you should keep it that way.