I dated this guy 4 a very long time, & he ends up cheatN on me but I wasn't an angel myself durN our relationship. I couldn't take D fact that he cheated on me so I broke up w/him like 6 yrs ago.We still love each other.But we both moved on w/our lives.I have 2 kids, & was married & about 2 get married again. & he's married w/a kid.We messed around like 4 2 yrs even after we stop dateN but this was b4 we were even married R met our "others".I just couldn't take D fact that there was no ring on my finger & when I askD if he could C me N his future he didn't have an answer.I told him even after we stopD dateN that he'll marry D 1st girl after me & he did(not even knowN her 4 a yr).Thing is, after 6 years, I still have feelings 4 him.He just found me on myspace & want 2 keep N touch.I'll do it as friends.our others don't have anything 2 do w/it.we R good friends & we would never do anything 2 hurt our relationship R them. He lives like 4 hrs away. We have so much 2 catch up 2. What 2 do?
2006-12-07 10:36:25 · 6 answers · asked by angelic1302 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's been in my family 10 plus years...plus he's my lil brother's Godfather...People still ask me today if we will ever get back together. But I know that will never happen...is there something wrong with 2 adults of the opposite sexes who love each other just want the best for each other?
In the back of our minds we both know we still love each other and we should've been together but we do know that it's not possible but we do still care for each other and respect our lives that we do have now...
2006-12-07 10:44:34 · update #1
Girl, I have sooo been there! Almost the exact situation down to a T. But in the end, just be his friend and delete any feelings that may try to come back into play. It is always better to keep someone as a friend than to lose them completely. It may be hard at first, but it will get easier. Best of luck to you!!
2006-12-07 10:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you hare happy with who u r with than don;t mess up a good thing at home for lust thats not love cause afterall this time ha may have changed as weel as you and you cannt live in the past just be happy with who god bless you with
2006-12-07 18:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by DIVA WITH SOUL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience, I would leave well enough alone. I had the chance to go back to my ex at his whim. But I would never do that anyway. It will only lead to hurt for your spouses and the kids....think about it would you want your spouse to do that to you?
2006-12-07 18:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by taljalea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you soon to be hubby about the guy and your history. If you would like to be friends with him keep it honest. You don't want to cause problems with your future hubby. He'll appreciate your honesty. Just my opinion.
2006-12-07 18:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by kayjay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just let him go because if your husband finds out you might end up divorced
2006-12-07 20:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope.
2006-12-07 18:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋