I had a dream I Kissed my Fiance's Bestfriend and really really liked it what do I do? just write it off as a stupid dream or ........ any suggestions?
2006-12-07 10:25:52 · 13 answers · asked by Poptart20 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First off Im a girl it's my fiancee's bestfrind not my own and HE is a GUY and I had the Chance to be with him be fore he introduced me to my now fiance.
2006-12-07 10:34:48 · update #1
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2006-12-08 13:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dreams are a form of emotional stress relief, which helps your mind unload. Getting married is a huge decision and sometimes we aren't quite sure. You had a chance once with the best friend, but let it pass. Your subconscious may be still unsatisfied, wondering what you might have missed, or questioning whether your fiancee your destiny. Also, while you may outwardly be somewhat reserved, you may have a hidden erotic side that wants to be explored. You may need to experiment a bit further, before going into a life long, committed relationship, as in marriage. If the dream repeats, or you fantasize beyond just kissing, which by your question, it sounds that you may, then there is no rush to get married and let nature take its course. Make sense?
2006-12-08 03:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by seattlego 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just write it off, it is after all just a dream. If it is recurring, then you should look to something that may be bothering you. Perhaps since it is your fiancee's best friend it could be just part of you being afraid of being with just him for the rest of your life. Kinda like cold feet. If that is the case then deal with that. For now just chalk it off as a weird dream.
2006-12-07 18:31:43 · answer #3 · answered by Firienscatha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write it off. If you think about it too much you may be tempted. I think a lot of dream consist of the last person you thought of before you went to bed. It doens't mean you thought of her in "that" way it just means she came up. Dreams also are mixed in with situation we have seen on t.v. movies or heard about it through a friend. I once had a dream that a got pregnant with one of my best guy friends baby, but I don't even like him in that way. It just out imagination at work. It will do more damage to think about it and to talk to them about it. Just let it go for right now.
2006-12-07 18:30:38 · answer #4 · answered by serena3116 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax it is just a dream I have some way out ones where I do much worse things than just kissing with people I am not even attracted to. and when I wake up I am like whoa where did that come from. and I tell myself lay off the sweets before bed lol
2006-12-07 19:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just write it off as a dream. There is no reason you can't be attracted by or to someone. It is natural. Even if its a sub concious thought. The thought would creep into your dreams. Don't worry about it. I had a dream once that i had sex with my fat gross history teacher. That day we'd found out he'd married one of his previous students. I was sickened by my own dream but it was what it was. No lasting trauma.
2006-12-07 18:30:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thank goodness we cannot be held responsible for our actions in our dreams! I think that the stress of marriage and the thought of only being with one person for the rest of our lives makes the brain do funny things! If, however, you act upon this in real life you will run into some major problems!!! Being married is wonderful and I am sure you will do fine!
2006-12-07 18:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by MommyX2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore this dream, but i hope u're satisfied with your fiance, because sometimes our dreams reflects whats on our mind, and stop checking his bestfriend out!!!!
2006-12-07 18:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by ssoussa22 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dreams are simbolic and maybe it just means something about your relationship with your fionce is going good? who knows, the only time it should concern you is if it is what you really feel you want outside of your dreams. Other than that, if you are in love with your fionce, your in love with your fionce.
2006-12-07 19:01:19 · answer #9 · answered by Nobody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you only had this dream once then forget about it if you had it twice think of why you would want to hirt your best friend in such a way.
2006-12-07 18:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by ty 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can't control your dreams, so I wouldn't worry about it
2006-12-07 18:47:09 · answer #11 · answered by xquis81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋