condom broke???

Question

ok so i have been seeing this girl for two months and we have had sex this morning she told me that shes pregnant and that its mine what should i do im only 17 I NEED ADVICE AND A LOT OF HELP

no we have been having sex she just told me yesterday that shes expecting a baby and that theres a 100% + 1 chance its mine a duuurrrr

Answer 1

Hi Honey, check to make sure she is really pregnant first and then sit with her to discuss options.

Here are some symptoms of pregnancy, check them and then see the doctor

Tender, swollen breasts
One of the early signs of pregnancy is sensitive, sore breasts caused by increasing levels of hormones. The soreness may feel like an exaggerated version of how your breasts feel before your period. Your discomfort should diminish significantly after the first trimester, as your body adjusts to the hormonal changes.

Fatigue
Feeling tired all of a sudden? No, make that exhausted. No one knows for sure what causes early pregnancy fatigue, but it's possible that rapidly increasing levels of the hormone progesterone are contributing to your sleepiness.

You should start to feel more energetic once you hit your second trimester, although fatigue usually returns late in pregnancy when you're carrying around a lot more weight and some of the common discomforts of pregnancy make it more difficult to get a good night's sleep

Nausea or vomiting
If you're like most women, morning sickness won't hit until about a month after conception. (A lucky few escape it altogether.) But some women do start to feel queasy a bit earlier. And not just in the morning, either — pregnancy-related nausea and vomiting can be a problem morning, noon, or night.

About half of women with nausea feel complete relief by the beginning of the second trimester. For most others it takes another month or so for the queasiness to ease up.

Increased sensitivity to odors
If you're newly pregnant, it's not uncommon to feel repelled by the smell of a bologna sandwich or cup of coffee and for certain aromas to trigger your gag reflex. Though no one knows for sure, this may be a side effect of rapidly increasing amounts of estrogen in your system. You may also find that certain foods you used to enjoy are suddenly completely repulsive to you.

Abdominal bloating
Hormonal changes in early pregnancy may leave you feeling bloated, similar to the feeling some women have just before their period arrives. That's why your clothes may feel snugger than usual at the waistline, even early on when your uterus is still quite small.

Frequent urination
Shortly after you become pregnant, you may find yourself hurrying to the bathroom all the time. Why? Mostly because during pregnancy the amount of blood and other fluids in your body increases, which leads to extra fluid being processed by your kidneys and ending up in your bladder.

This symptom may start as early as six weeks into your first trimester and continue or worsen as your pregnancy progresses and your growing baby exerts more pressure on your bladder.

A missed period
If you're usually pretty regular and your period doesn't arrive on time, you'll probably take a pregnancy test long before you notice any of the above symptoms. But if you're not regular or you're not keeping track of your cycle, nausea and breast tenderness and extra trips to the bathroom may signal pregnancy before you realize you didn't get your period.

Your basal body temperature stays high
If you've been charting your basal body temperature and you see that your temperature has stayed elevated for 18 days in a row, you're probably pregnant

Good luck.

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Answer 2

Whoa.

First talk about what she wants to do.
Next call Planned Parenthood at 1-800-230-PLAN.
They will help with ANYTHING she chooses, whether it's adoption, abortion, keeping the child ... anything.

Now, if you just had sex THIS MORNING and never before that, she would not know she's pregnant yet. She wouldn't technically even BE pregnant yet. So if this was the time the condom broke, she needs Emergency Contraception. Visit www.not-2-late.com to find out where to get it ... it is available over the counter, but if you are both underage you will have to get someone else to buy it.

If this morning is the only time the condom broke, but she's telling you she's like two months pregnant, she's probably lying. It's possible, but I would definitely ask whether she's been with anyone else. It's also possible that she's not even pregnant. Or maybe the condom tore another time just a little and you didn't notice. So if she's telling you she's like 8 weeks along you need to have a LONG talk before calling Planned Parenthood. But still call.

Good luck.

And I hate to tell you this, but you don't have any say. She gets to decide what to do about this. She can abort it, adopt it out, or keep it herself. All you can do if she chooses to carry it is petition the court for parental rights, and pay child support. Unless she asks you to do more it's not up to you.

Answer 3

Make her prove she is pregnant meaning when she is with you, go buy a pregnancy test and as soon as she is done peeing, make her show you the test and make sure you read the directions between the difference of negative and positive. That is only way to see with fast results plus you can see for yourself if she is lying, and besides atleast you wore a condom and glad you did. It is not a huge possibility the condom broke but it does happen. From now on do a test with the condom after you use it like fill it with water and see if it leaks. But sounds really weird that she is pregnant that fast. She is highly unlikely to know she is pregnant so fast. I do not believe that she would know and actually would not know so fast. Wait 1 week and take a pregnancy test because she sounds like a liar looking for attention that or she cheated or was pregnant before she met you or may gotten her pregnant before this morning and she just has for some reason is now telling you. Just highly not likely you had sex and hours later say hey im pregnant. Take a test and you see it for your self. Even though she may be pregnant with your kid, and your 17 your parents yeah good chance will be mad. But your parents wont be mad forever. We all make mistakes only some are worse than others and just stay with the girl cause it costs much much more for child support than to take care a baby trust me, you leave and she can screw you over much harder than your parents.

Answer 4

If you're for truly and the you believe that you can be probably pregnant, pass for your healthcare professional and get the morning after tablet. In outcome a surprise dose of the object within the natural contreceptive tablet. May be to be had out of your regional pharmacy/ dispencary. Don't even concider an abortion as it'll screw your lifestyles entirely for ever and you'll be a cot case syko. If the whole thing turns pear formed undertake and make an infertile coulpes dream come real. Next time take a look at a extra reliable condom, and even 2. If you're Irish take a look at 3 .. to be shaw, to be shaw, to be shaw !! magoo

Answer 5

Well the same thing happened to my brother the first thing you should do is tell your parents the situation they might give you a long lecture but they will help alot. Then you get a job if you dont already have one but one thing you have to do is be in this girls life and the baby because its hard to raise a child on your own or another option is if you both think it is right u could thing about adoption but DONT GET A ABORTION.You can also see if its yours when the baby is born by getting a a DNA test.Hoped I helped

Answer 6

I'm 15 and pregnant but me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and something months.. She will need all the support she needs right now.. Believe me it isn't the end of the world.. You will love the baby no matter what. Congrats

Answer 7

I dont exactly understand, did the condom brake this morning and now she says shes pregnent, maybe shes just panicing, get a pill called the morning after pill, look it up, if your having sex, use a condom and the pill (a different pill), that way no pregnency for sure

Answer 8

if ya'll had sex this morning she can't know that she pregnant. it don't happen that fast. but if she is u will have to take the responsibility. it took 2 to make the baby so both of u need to be there 4 the baby.

Answer 9

First thing you might want to do, is buy a pregnancy test have her come over, and when she gets there tell her tio take it in front of you. If she is pregnant all you can do is express to her that your not ready to be father ( if the chikd is even yours). If she decide's to have the child anyhow, support her as best as you can, and as soon as the baby is born get a blood test to prove it's yours.

Answer 10

well one calm down. are you ready to be a father? well all i have to say is dont be a pussy and put your tail between your legs. and well its not always that the condom broke. its just the fact that you had sex. well i kno that if your not ready to be a dad or a father just dont have sex. well i kno its a big responsibility but you do need to face the fact that you dicked it you take care of it. i kno that may seem harsh but you kno its life dont wimp out and just take responibility i just kno that you should do whats right. and congrats on the baby