Why do guys?....................... NEED ADVICE please?
play games...
there's this guy i've been like seeing for like 2 months and he tells me he misses me and that he likes me , he says it's a good thing cause he does'nt usually like girls.
then everytime he's drunk he asks me if i like him....obviously i do if i drive down to see him all the time.
he texts me that " AREN'T YOU TIRED OF THE GAMES GUYS AND GIRLS PLAY...LIKE I WANT TO STOP BUT I FEEL IF I PUT ANY KIND OF TRUST IN A GIRL I'D GET ****** OVER.
he had an ex that he loved and he said they went out for like 2 yrs and broken up for like a yr ago.
In his myspace he has all these pictures of him and different girls......that he has hooked up with in the past and dated.so he is seeing other girls.
What do i do??
Is he Messing with my head?
pleasee help me . hes 21 and im 20and sometimes he won't even call me within a week.he'll call me only to go hang out and go to his house. he says things but never does them!
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he always invites other girls out to dinner or movies etc.
and me .........never.'
i feel like he doesnt like me sometimes and that hes only using me.
2006-12-07 10:21:24 · 7 answers · asked by ~*SagiTTarius*~ 1 in Sports ➔ Basketball
WRONG FORUM
YOU NEED
OPRAH
DR PHIL
JERRY SPRINGER
2006-12-08 00:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by smitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, it sounds like you have become the "just in case girl". He spends his time trying to hook up with random girls, but he also continues to talk to you and tells you how important you are to him. He does this "just in case" things go bad with the other girls. That way he's always got you to fall back on if things don't work out with his first option.
He sounds insecure, like he needs reassurance that girls like him and want him. That's why he asks you dumb crap like "Do you like me?" all the time.
It also seems like a contradiction for him to say he doesn't usually like girls, but yet he has all of these pics on myspace with girls that he hooked up with. I don't know what he means by "he doesn't usually like girls". There's a name for guys like that. Gay guys.
Bottom line, he's either insecure or a closet homo. Either way, stop wasting your time and move on to someone who won't play games with you.
2006-12-07 18:35:42 · answer #2 · answered by Bodie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i would dump the guy, he doesn't really seem interested in you. You need a guy who has you #1 on his list.
2006-12-07 18:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by totalstuff8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y is dis in sports?
2006-12-07 20:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using u dummie, but if u still dont find any other anaconda to play with wat can u do.... i think dump him and get atleast a dildo.....
2006-12-07 19:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by Wolverine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD TOTALLY DUMP HM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-07 19:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Thanks for the points.
2006-12-07 18:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by Big Daddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋