This is supposed to be a site for help and opinions but nobody will help me out PLEASE HELP if you can?

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You all answer the millions of "am i pregnant" questions a day the least some of you could do is to help me out by giving me your input on this question that I have. that is all I am asking for so PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!!! Thanks

I am a week away from aunt flow supposing to start, I have been feeling so so so tired like today I can barely keep my eyes open, my sleep patterns haven't changed at all. I have been having crazy dreams lately. My boobs are a tad bit sore like they are more achy, and I am having mild to light cramps in my lower tummy. I am starting to get hungry more often like last night at 2am I wanted something to eat my tummy felt like I was starving. I used to love chicken and rice could eat it at anytime and I made it last night for dinner and couldn't eat it because it tasted funny to me. I do have an increase in cm, and my cervix is still really high and also very soft almost blending in with the other parts up there, it is slightly open but barely.

I have also been really thirsty lately and feeling like no matter what I drink I can't quench my thirst. I am a week away from my expected period so please do not tell me to take a test it is still too early for that. Also could this be early pregnancy symptoms or something else ALL ADVICE NEEDED RIGHT NOW

Im married and we have been not actively trying to conceive this is the first time I have felt these symptoms like this, I did hear that this could be like a second ovulation for me or maybe the first surge was not strong enough to push the egg out that is why a second surge is on it's way or something like that I am not sure. I check my cervix just like the doctors would and have been doing so for a while so I know what to look for and I do agree that this may very well mean that I am still fertile and that I have to wait I just wanted to input from others I didn't want you all to be taking it as I am wanting you to tell me if I was pregnant or not I just wanted some input

Someone stated that my wording is off and is leading people to think that I am a guy??? I don't know about that but I am definatly a women. And as for the women who stated that you can't ovulate more than once in a month, that was a wrong statement it was kinda cocky how you stated that and also put it in all caps and that answer came from an actual midwife who did state that it is possible to ovulate more than once in a month it doesn't happen every month but do some reading before trying to be cocky and rude

TO THE OTHERS WHO ARE GIVING ME ACTUAL NICE ANSWERS AND OPINIONS I DO SO MUCH APPRECIATE IT. I AM JUST BASICALLY WANTING TO KNOW WHAT OTHERS THOUGHT. I WASN'T SURE IF THIS WAS EARLY PREGNANCY SIGNS OR POSSIBLE IMPENDING OVULATION THAT IS WHAT MY QUESTION WAS.

ALSO TO THE LADY WHO SAID HOW DO I KNOW THE POSITION OF MY CERVIX DO SOME RESEARCH THERE ARE ALOT OF WOMEN WHO YOU SELF CERVICAL EXAMS AS A WAY TO FIGURE OUT WHEN THEY'RE ABOUT TO OVULATE.

Answer 1

Too hard to tell at this point it could very well be way too early to tell so Your best bet is to wait until the day your period is due and then take a test, don't be fooled by those tests that declare they can accurately show a positive up to five days before missed period, if you look at the instructions they tell you that the percentage of women who get an accurate reading 5 days before their missed period is about a 69% chance and then a 73 % chance at 4 days before hand and then for the 3rd and 2nd days before your missed period it is an 83% chance and then the day before and the day of your missed period I believe is a 94 or 95% chance. So if I were you just to be on the safe side wait until you have actually missed your period and then take a test that way you don't waste money on possibly getting a false negative. Best of luck to you and try not to think about it, but if those tests come up negative and you are about a week or more late then I would visit your doctor if I were you and request a blood test to be done. These are the two types of blood tests that are performed, some places do both and some do one or another

Qualitative Pregnancy Blood Test - This can only give a "yes" or "no" answer as to whether or not HCG is present. This test gives results similar to what urine based home pregnancy test kits do. <<---- this one is like a urine home pregnancy test but with blood, meaning that if a certain amount of HCG is not detected then it will give you a negative result, but that doesn't always mean that you are not pregnant there is a good chance that you could not be producing enough of the pregnancy hormone to get a positive.

Quantitative Pregnancy Blood Test – This test can actually measure the exact amount of hCG in the woman's blood. This measurement can help give a rough estimate of the age of the fetus. It can also help determine if the pregnancy is progressing normally. The qualitative test, described above, is not able to provide this extra information. <<<--- this one is more accurate with the results, what it does is measures your HCG and Beta levels and if the levels are not high enough to register a positive but you still think you are pregnant then what the doctor will recommend you to do is come back in to their office in about a week or so and they will retest if the levels have gone up then you are pregnant, if they haven't then they have gone down, always request this type of blood test because it is more accurate in the results. Don't be fooled by people who tell you that blood tests are 100% accurate, or that blood doesn't lie you have to be firm in what you want and stand strongly behind the way you feel about this. BEST OF LUCK TO YOU, I HOPE THIS HELPED YOU OUT A BIT, AND TONS OF BABY DUST FOR YOU

Answer 2

Most are not answering because of your wording probably. For instance, the "aunt flow". Most of us women would not say that. Then you say your cervix is high? Women don't say that either. How do you know your cervix is high. These sound like male comments so everyone is probably leary of answering. Also, your "question" doesn't seem to be a question. Are you asking if you could be pregnant? Well, I have nothing better to do...so here goes.....It sounds like you are experiencing pms. If you miss your period, do a test and go with the results. Check the expiration date on the chicken, check your rice for weavels (sp?). Stop staying up late at night and get a good nights sleep. Stop stressing. If you want to get pregnant, go for it and if not, use protection. If you want everyone to answer your questions.....be very specific about your question and then give extra info if you need to or want to. That will get your more answers.

I see you updated....well, I think you are putting waaaaayyyy to much energy into this if you are checking your own cervix. For one, your hand can not reach in quite like a physicians and gauge wether it is open, (by looking) or feeling. The best thing to do is realize that periods can be different because of our lifestyles and the changes from day to day. It does not "sound" like you are pregnant because you haven't missed your period and most of the TRUE symptoms don't start a day after you are pregnant but a few weeks(4-6) after conception so stop worrying and stressing and analyzing your body and just "go with the flow". lol.

Answer 3

When I first got pregnant my boobs were REALLY sore and I also did notice that I was so thirsty all the time. I think it is because my body heat increased a bit or something, cause I was also really hot at night (which is very RARE for me). Things have never tasted funny for me, but sometimes when I would have PMS they would, and I would really get hungry during PMS also. I'm not sure if this really answers your question, but I honestly didn't even know I was pregnant until I got really sick and couldn't get over it (nasty cold/flu bug) so I went to the hospital and they always do pregnancy tests to rule that out and I happend to be pregnant. I honestly didn't really start feeling the pregnancy symptoms until about 5 weeks along. Good luck.

Answer 4

Sounds to me like alot of the symptoms I had early on. Another big one for me was my mood swings!!! I would always get a little cranky when I was PMSing but this was SO much worse. I couldnt stand ANYONE including myself. I was also very emotional, I cried one night because I had a terrible waitress! LOL. But my advice would be to wait untill 5 days before your period is due and try taking the First Response pregnancy test. It has been known to work that early. I took it one day after my period was due, and it said I was pregnant. Another bit of advice would be to try not to do to much reading about symptoms and pregnancy, I did that once before and had myself convinced I was pregnant. Then when I got my period I was devastated. Try to relax for a few more days and not think about it to much (I know thats easier said than done) You will for sure know either way soon enough. Good Luck, and feel free to email me if I can help anymore.

Answer 5

All of your symptoms could be pregnancy..or they couldn't be. That's just the way it is for all of us who are trying to conceive, there's nothing definitive until we miss a period and get a positive test(because other pregnancy symptoms mimic premenstrual syndrome). I didn't have any morning sickness with my first two pregnancies and I do with my third, for example, so you can't really base 'am I pregnant' on any symptoms BUT a missed period. I hate to do this to you, but you have to wait at least 3 or 4 days, and then you can take an early pregnancy test. (I don't like those, though, because they give more false negatives than regular tests.)\
Best of luck and try to be patient!

Answer 6

Sounds like you have the symptoms, if you want quick answers go to the doctor and ask for a blood test, they are accurate before a home pregnancy test would be. Since you are a week away from you period these could all be pms symptoms. Also your cervix would be closed and firm if you are pregnant. when it's high and soft that's usually when you're fertile.

Answer 7

Yes, we are all here to help and give advice but we are not experts on the topics that come up. (well, maybe a few are but...) Anyway, your symptoms could be that of pregnancy but sometimes you have the same symptoms at the onset of your period. There is always the possibility that you are sick too. The best advice anyone could give you is to go see your doctor because he/she is an expert and you should never play around with your health. Take care.

Answer 8

Wait two or three days, then get a First Response pregnancy test. That can detect a pregnancy up to 5 days before a missed period. If it wasn't for the sore boobs and hunger (I am assuming you don't mean dissiness or weakness, just hunger pangs), I would advise you to get a diabetes test done. It does sound much more like pregnancy, though.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

Have you been going to the bathroom more than normal? If so you might be pregnant. Just calm down and take the test it's not to early.
I had the same symptoms went to the doctor and he said i was 6 weeks pregnant.