I dont' get it. Why is it so hard to get ahold of my friends. They never call me or pick up the phone, when I call and then when we talk, it's a 2 min. conversation.
2006-12-07 09:34:00 · 7 answers · asked by kisses 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
When you talk does your conversation surround what is about you or about them
2006-12-07 09:36:57 · answer #1 · answered by royce r 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have more questions than answers.
What kind of friend are you to them?
Do you take more than you give?
Are you pushy?
Do you talk more about yourself more than you listen to them?
Do you interrupt a lot?
Are you fun?
Do you talk about negative things during the conversation every time you talk to a friend?
Do you complain a lot?
Do you act like you know it all?
What is it that makes you so likable?
If you are any of these things, you might not be considered so likable. Reevaluate what kind of friend you are to others. Remember to treat friends the way you would like to be treated. Friendship is not a one sided deal.
Then the case may be that you need to pick other friends, or let them pick you.
2006-12-07 09:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by JB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need new friends. I'm not trying to be rude, but friendship is not about avoiding your friend's e-mails and phone calls. You should seriously do what you can to make some new friends. "Friends" you have to try and pin down are NOT friends.
2006-12-07 09:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by clarity 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same way,its either that you and you friends dont have anything in common anymore because you changed or your friends did,with maybe differant styles of music,or you drifted apart from them even just a short time,or either they got a new bf/gf or you did and maybe they dont like them.something like that
2006-12-07 09:59:59 · answer #4 · answered by d4rkprincess84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends? do you call them several times a day? are you always talking about yourself? maybe you should ask them to tell you the truth why they don't want to talk to you. i see your nick name is "know it all" do you act like a know it all? that can be annoying to other people
2006-12-07 09:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by parrotsarenoisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask your friends.
2006-12-07 09:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by Awake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get new friends
2006-12-07 09:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by R-Diz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋