i'm scared of the kind of world my kids will be raised in if i have them
2006-12-07 09:24:06 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Undecided. I keep thinking I will someday but I don't see how it's ever going to happen. It really doesn't seem like a good idea for many reasons but I think I want at least 2 anyway. I don't see how I'd ever be able to relax unless I knew exactly were they were at every second.
2006-12-07 09:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by Pico 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am still undecided about having kids...no jk. I have three I started when I was 18, got married and had kids right out of high school. I wouldn't change a thing. But I do worry about what the future holds. But you cannot live in fear of the unknown. I am 26 now and some of my friends are just starting...I am glad I had them sooner than later. They are my world. And my life would be incomplete without them.
* but I must add that I am now doing having them. I will just raise and love the ones that we have.
2006-12-07 09:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by ♥just me♥ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm undecided. If my wife is brilliant, I will have kids. If the child is average, than I won't be able to cope. I would not be frustrated, but I would lack the patience to be a good father.
2006-12-07 09:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by Professor Sheed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also scared of bringing kids into this world how it is now, but eventually I will have kids. I'm not confused about whether I want to have them or not.♥
2006-12-07 09:42:08 · answer #4 · answered by dyingatwork 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that keeps me happy with having kids is I hope they are the generation that makes the world a better place to live in.
2006-12-07 09:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by eeyoree rocks2003 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I guess I was lucky that way: born spayed. Never had a litter in all my 50 years. I really never cared much for babies, like most women do, and I can't imagine I'd have made a good mom. I'd be the one standing in the door turning purple, screaming at the kid!
2006-12-07 09:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by Baby'sMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm only 17 so I got a while to think about it, but I'll probably not have kids because I don't want the responsibility and I don't want to be tied down.
2006-12-07 10:09:08 · answer #7 · answered by nobodyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I'm not undecided. I want kids. It took a bad marriage with a husband who never wanted children to help me with that decision.
2006-12-07 09:27:04 · answer #8 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
We have a policy of a flexible no on kids. Neither of us has a burning desire for them but if one of us changes our feelings, we'll consider it.
Your reason is just one of the many reasons we have for not wanting kids. It's a risk every parent takes.
2006-12-07 09:33:55 · answer #9 · answered by stimply 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Kids are the last thing I want
2006-12-07 09:29:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋