2006-12-07 09:21:28 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why bother with the living with a person part? If you have both lost interest in each other to the extent that you are both having affairs maybe you have come to the end of the road and it is just time to end it! Seriously if you are both doing it then what is the real point in being together?
Also if you judge your own behaviour by comparison to those who do wrong you will always SEEM acceptable. Unless you are in an agreed open relationship then having an affair is wrong... Just because one party does it doesn't mean the other person is permitted to. Seeking payback is an ever decreasing circle and gets you no where!
2006-12-07 09:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by Lara L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope it's not cool...especially if a child or children are involved. Get a grip or get out of that marriage....I mean what would be the point of having an affair to try to hurt the other spouse back...what if you get the other woman pregnant.. It will never avenge the hurt you felt when you found out about the affair done on you.......so keep that in mind
2006-12-07 09:38:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way! That's an absolutley insane question to ask. Surely you have heard the expression, if everyone jumped off a bridge would you to? It certainly applys to your situation. Overall, the answer is found within your values. Do you value the idea of monogamy (sticking with one person) ? As far as my own values are conserned, you should not be living with that person if they're having an affair, and just because they're stupid enough to have one.. it doesn't mean you'll look any less like an idiot if you do.
2006-12-07 09:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by CrimsonStained 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have an affair with the person they are having an affair with it is not only acceptable it makes for a perfect 3some!
2006-12-07 09:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Affairs are never acceptable
2006-12-07 09:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there's anything wrong in that....if you know your partner has an affair and you have accepted the fact...then you are allowed to do the same. That'll be lot of fun.....happier life with reduced frustrations and boredom!
2006-12-07 11:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by Naina S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And whats the point of you two being together when both are going to have affairs ??
2006-12-07 09:24:21 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be living with some1 who is having an affair,get rid.
2006-12-07 12:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First question is, are either of you married? Second is are either of you commited? If you answered no to both questions then there is your answer. If you aren't committed to the relationship and each other, move out now! Cheating is just that cheating and if someone else is, it doesn't make it okay for you to do it either. It just lowers you to their level, and I don't think you want that on your conscience. Tell the person that you aren't interested in them anymore and make your way out the door! Do it for you, not for them, but if they are the first to cheat, kick them out, no exceptions! Good luck! Happily married 20 years and still going strong!
2006-12-07 09:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by Daisy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not acceptable but that is what I am going to do. I know two wrongs don't make a right but I am going to show him what it feels like to be on the other end.
2006-12-07 09:23:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋