Friend Problems?

Question

I just wanted opinions on this.

About two weeks ago, me and my friend go in a major fight. Basically: She called my friend "unreasonable and ignorant," while this girl would never do anything to hurt someone else. Naturally I stood up for her, and said something rude back.

Before we got into a fight, we were planning on going into New York City for a reunion kind of thing (all of our friends from camp 2 years ago). She's over it, and still thinks she going on Sat.

I'm still furious with her. Its not just this one time, she's always rude, distrespectful, arrogant, and lazy. I'm done with all of it!

I feel like she should come, just because she she needs to see them. I really can't bring myself to talk to her though. Monday she was rude to me, when I asked her if she was coming, today she acted as if nothing happend. She doesn't see why I would be mad at her.

Any good ways to handle this situation? I can't just say no to her, and talking to her is out of the question

Answer 1

Just stay away from her as much as possible. Be civil for the trip and then let her fade away.

Answer 2

It is not an ideal situation. Since this is Christmas time try to forgive and forget. Do not let the sun go down on on you wrath. Try talking to her even though you may feel uncomfortable. It is always best to trry and resolve issuesbefore they get out of hand.

Answer 3

The same thing happend to me, exept, my friend insoltid my BFF. and we pushed each other called each other names were compleatly mad at each other! and we still are fighting! and it began about 2 months ago there is noooo chance of us being friends again, Take it from me a kid in crises! and good luck i think you should have to ignore her. if shes mean just walk away and hang with REAL FRIENDS!

Answer 4

DUMP HER CUS SHE DOSNT SOUND LIKE A VERY GOOD FRIEND... YOUR OTHER FRIEND IS WAY BETTER